Cybersex relationships - lame or fun?
Posted Wed Sep 10, 2008 06:06 PM
And girls, really, how many of you had a fun cybersex experience over web cam and could imagine doing it again with the same person?
Posted Wed Sep 10, 2008 06:53 PM
Posted Thu Sep 11, 2008 12:34 AM
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Posted Thu Sep 11, 2008 01:13 PM
So admittedly I'm curious.
Posted Fri Sep 12, 2008 07:51 PM
It can be done and for long periods with the same person and people can fall in love. Feelings can be hurt just as in real life. So be careful.
It can help keep people in sexless marriages that have no way out.
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2008 11:37 AM
it's for teenagers..
I like the real thing.-bang bang-
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2008 12:11 PM
It is always 'text only' and only when I really feel like it. C.a.m.s don't work for me. Not only I wouldn't do it on cam with the same person again but I'd hide in some remote island for ever since, if they got to know me. lol. Most times I just enjoy the flirt, anyway. It helps when the real thing is not available or you have no strenght to go look for it for some reason (emotional, physical, practical) and imagination is not enough any more. Plus, it is a great contraceptive, lol and it helps with dead marriages.
Okay, it's not like the real thing, not much different from fantasising in your bed, alone. Well, you do have to type... But I guess it's better from sleeping around and doing all kinds of nonsense with strangers in bars or wherever just because you feel horny and frustrated.
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2008 02:50 PM
Anywho, my point, i've cybered and it's fun. I wouldn't say it's lame at all, it's just not as good as the real thing.
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2008 10:53 PM
Besides, several of my cyber sex partners became real sex partners.
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2008 11:30 PM
To answer the original question...the hookup in person is always favored in my book. Nothing can replace the thrill and exhilaration that meeting a new person can bring on. However as PhatKitKat said it can be a release for those in relations that are sexless or have extreme circumstances.
I personally haven't done it since the Internet was in it's infancy, but would I consider it...most likely. I don't consider it cheating and with the situation I'm in, it would work as a release for pent up "energy" when I can't get it from my wife. I work on a college campus...and see waaaaay too much for my own good, and with my wife having a hysterectomy at age 29...and our sex life on the rocks....what is a man to do. I absolutely will not go outside of our marriage for sex....so for me yes....it would work out perfectly....but have I taken it that far yet...no.
Just my point of view,
Posted Sat Sep 27, 2008 07:46 AM
Neither. Sex over web cam, one-night stands and casual sex are major turn-offs for me.
Posted Wed Oct 01, 2008 02:11 PM
Sweet Meat said:
OK, let's split hairs just a bit more. From what I understand, you consider cheating to be the *communication* of your desire to the object of your desire.
Hence, anything more than an ambiguous form of flirting is cheating.
Yeah, I would agree to that.
Posted Sat Nov 08, 2008 05:39 AM
I am not interested in meeting the people I cyber or cam with, it's a nice fantasy but the reality is not something I want. I am lucky they all live in different countries so it's not likely to ever happen.
I know my behaviour is needy and attention seeking, but it is filling a void and making me feel justified in the distress of rejection by my husband.
I don't know if my husband would care that I behave this way, he no longer talks to me about anything emotional or personal.
My self esteem has definitely been boosted by behaving like this, I am feeling good about myself, and my body, and sleeping well at night.
I see it as fun but I know its not harmless.
Posted Sat Nov 08, 2008 09:27 AM