In a relationship but ex is in the way
Posted Fri Nov 22, 2013 03:41 PM
Posted Fri Nov 22, 2013 06:50 PM
Well i think you have got some tough decisions to make but good luck with it.
Posted Sun Nov 24, 2013 10:58 PM
That's cool so long as you're willing to risk the life with the fiancee...
If I were you (and I'm not), I'd strongly consider going for broke with the ex that I'm in love with, and if she accepted, go to your fiancee and tell her the truth and save her from investing any more of herself and her time into a relationship with you when she's not the one you really want.
I don't agree with anyone who would tell you to continue with your fiancee despite the small issue of her not being the one you want. If she's not the person you honestly want to be with, you're only setting yourself and your fiancee up for massive pain and cost down the road.
If you want your ex, you need to decide if you're willing to move on her or not. If not, then just completely let her go. No sense in keeping around someone you really want but can't have while she's taking it up the tail pipe from another guy she creams her pants for.
If you're willing to move on her, then stop pussy-footing around and make your move. If she declines, great. If she accepts, great.
Stop confusing yourself about this. Simplify. Decide. Deploy. Execute.
Posted Fri Nov 29, 2013 04:04 PM
Posted Sat Dec 07, 2013 10:57 AM
If you're really in love with your ex come clean and tell her. If she feels similarly, great, if not, great too but end it with the fiancé so she can move on as well because nobody wants to be someones second choice. If you really want things to work with your fiancé then end it with the ex and move on. Stop torturing yourself over the relationship that isn't and move on.
Posted Sun Jan 12, 2014 03:49 PM
This post has been edited by Mark Aurel: Sun Jan 12, 2014 03:49 PM
Posted Mon Jan 13, 2014 02:03 PM