Tips for lasting longer?
Posted Mon Nov 25, 2013 07:37 PM
My problem is I just can't seem to control myself during sex. When I masturbate I can go for as long as I want same thing when getting a blow job, but when it comes to sex no control what so ever! Using a condom doesn't seem to make a difference either. I am thinking it is most likely in my head, every once in awhile I get into that "zone" where I am going good then I start thinking hey look how long I am lasting this time and it's all downhill from there. Problem is I haven't figured out how to get into and stay in that "zone".
I have started doing some internet searching to find things to try and help, but I figured I would post here too and see if anyone has some good tips.
Posted Mon Nov 25, 2013 08:22 PM
a) Age will help to resolve a little of this. I think most guys here over 30 probably noticed that at some point in their late 20s they went from a few minutes to much longer (if they wanted to, some guys still are quick).
Learn to control how you breath. Take longer, slower breaths during sex, if you are on your back, remove the pillows from behind your head, this will allow you to take deeper breaths, if you are on top, straighten out a little more.
c) Go slower, men are just wired that if you are hammering away at her for 2 minutes you are going to cum, doesn't matter what you do, going fast, thrusting hard will make you cum faster. There is a time and place for that, but not from the start, dig in, enjoy yourself.
Posted Mon Nov 25, 2013 10:57 PM
Breathing could be a big one. I think I am just more tense during sex, which might be it as well. I will try to focus more on breathing.
Slower does help a little so maybe a combination of going slower and focusing on breathing will do the trick.
Thanks for the advice.
Posted Tue Nov 26, 2013 07:15 AM
Posted Wed Nov 27, 2013 04:08 PM
Sounds like part of the issue is that you need to focus a bit
Posted Wed Nov 27, 2013 04:48 PM
Posted Thu Nov 28, 2013 11:10 AM