virginity is important & why?
Posted Mon Dec 23, 2013 02:27 AM
Posted Mon Dec 23, 2013 08:57 AM
Posted Mon Dec 23, 2013 09:06 AM
i may well end up marrying some day, but nope, i won't be virgin.
when i was 18, in HS, i met a girl that my body reacted in a way
that i just had to do it with her. and we did,
it was so good, it was fun, and we've been having sex now for 5 years.
it just feels too good to give up.
i respect virginity, though, but i think it's kinda hard to have a 18-23 year-old body
and not have sex, but i guess some people can manage it. and that's ok.
Posted Mon Dec 23, 2013 09:15 AM
Another myth is that they are terrible in bed, some might be, but the ones I was with rocked me good, and fucked like pornstars.
Probably because porn is a big part of their internet viewing, I mean it kinda makes sense if you watch enough of it you'll figure out what to do.
Would I marry one? I don't know, I mean the choice would not be based on if the kept their "purity" or not, lol.
Posted Mon Dec 23, 2013 09:41 AM
Posted Mon Dec 23, 2013 10:21 AM
Posted Fri Dec 27, 2013 08:09 AM
Posted Fri Dec 27, 2013 08:52 AM
Irrelevant because we all were virgins at some point but most of us no longer are. At certain (young) age I don't see it neither as a plus nor as a minus, it's just a fact no more than height, body weight, hair colour, whatnot is. Absolutely important because at a certain (older) age I see it as a 'dont-go-there' sign. People often find number of explanations why someone is still a virgin in their late 20s or early 30s. It is being shy, not finding the 'right' person to do it with, whatnot ... but for me it is an idicator of some deeper issues. With interactions between sexes being complicated enough already this additional 'bagage' is not something I am willing to deal with.
Think of such a person as a brand new car being on display in a car dealership for months. It sure looks like a nice car but how come noone found it good/exciting enough to actually buy it?
This post has been edited by SirFoggy: Fri Dec 27, 2013 08:53 AM
Posted Mon Dec 30, 2013 01:53 PM
LOL I stand corrected! But I was referring to female virgins rather than male - 2 different animals
Posted Mon Dec 30, 2013 03:06 PM
While it sounds shallow and ridiculous on paper, lol... I agree.
I've taken a couple of girls' virginity. What was suppose to be a wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am, turned into a long, drawn out attachment. Sex was stifling and boring for so long. It was fun to teach and I had patience, but if I were to marry one of these girls, I don't think I could take a lifetime of stagnant sex.
That being said, I'm a little closer to the situation than I lead on. My fiancee was a virgin when she came to me. After we discussed a sort of open relationship, just being with other men has improved her sexuality. Her confidence, her technique... knowledge of what's "normal" and "abnormal." i honestly dont know if i could have hacked it forever. actually, i know i couldnt have. but as of now, she is an amazing and skilled woman.
same can be said about men as well. we all dont need to be whores and sluts to satisfy another person, but a couple of bodies under out belt and we all should be able to call it good. i was a late bloomer and a slow learner. it took me about 6-7 different women before i could confidently say i was good.
This post has been edited by Cry Wolf: Mon Dec 30, 2013 03:07 PM
Posted Mon Dec 30, 2013 10:03 PM