Posted Thu Feb 20, 2014 11:07 PM
I read that about my partner on a forum:"those long steamy 4 ways with Zeph and your missus were always just the thing to cheer a guy up..."
This does mean that they had a foursome right?
I am freaking out :s Gosh me and my freaking outs :s The post was from 10 years ago but still makes me feel weird....Can't stop thinking about it :s I want to ask him about it but don't really want to cause he's not the one that told me, I found it.
Posted Fri Feb 21, 2014 12:40 AM
Posted Fri Feb 21, 2014 12:50 AM
I know it's in the past but what is weird is that there is this post which basically says that happened but last time we were at the cinema and there was a scene where 2 guys were having sex in the same room with different girls, he said "ew" so I always thought he wouldn't be into that but then when I read this post then I'm like: "shit, is he hiding his sexual fantasies to me? Doesn't he feel safe enough to tell me" God knows I showed him I'm not really one to shy away in the bedroom. Hmm well basically it's always a hard thing for him to tell me what turns him on though, only when we dirty talk while having sex he talks about what he would want.
Posted Fri Feb 21, 2014 06:24 AM
Probably all men have had this happen once or twice in their life. It only takes once before you learn to keep your mouth shut.
It may be that your man is thinking, "Wow, I really like this girl so I'd better make sure she doesn't find out that I enjoy or have participated in group sex, or she might leave."
Posted Fri Feb 21, 2014 08:54 AM
Posted Fri Feb 21, 2014 02:01 PM
Posted Fri Feb 21, 2014 02:49 PM
@Mainecpl1980 I guess you are right too. Because he always said I was special (also used to say I was the love of his life) and his parents and friends told it to me too as I am the only girlfriend he ever brought home and introduced to his family.
Gosh I'm dumb not to trust him. I think it also comes from the generalizations I have of men in my head and my father cheating on my mum...
Posted Sat Feb 22, 2014 02:00 AM