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frustrated new member
Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 02:04 PM
Over the past year or so i have been craving more than the just the occasional missionary sex that ive been putting up with for basically years now, fore play consists of a half arsed fumble at my bits until he can force hes way in. I have tried everything i can think of from buying sexy underwear upto buying sex toys but all i get are questions and disaproval as if im up to something.
I still love him but im not so sure if im in love with him still if you know what i mean.
Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 02:09 PM
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Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 02:13 PM
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ive tried doing stuff for him and i have honestly tried to tell him how i feel but anything new to him seems wrong and hes not intrested christ i even offered to find another women to share a night with and he freaked out
Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 02:54 PM
If you don't mind my asking, how old is your significant other and how much experience does he have in the bedroom? That sounds to me like lack of age, or lack of experience, possibly lack of ever having a partner to tell him he's doing it wrong. That is certainly not the way to O land for the vast majority of women, and for me, wouldn't work long or even short term.
Have a conversation - a sexy conversation rather than just tossing out the fact that you're unfulfilled or less than satisfied, that just hurts egos and feelings. Start of with some flirtation, and ask him questions like what are his favorite things to have you do to him, if he could have his way with you, what are some things he'd do that you two haven't experienced together thus far - then branch into answering those same questions for yourself. During this time, a little kissing and touching, leading into doing some of the things suggested, makes for some heated romps and hopefully guidance and encouragement for him!
Keep in mind that men can be dense in the bedroom, and women can be timid, take what you want by being upfront about it.
Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 03:30 PM
I would suggest you put the fling you had out of your mind and talk to your partner. Tell him you are unhappy with things in the bedroom. But please be aware a poor sex life is often just a symptom of deeper problems in the relationship
If you are still in love with your partner, then be prepared to examine all aspects of your life together, not just the stuff in the bedroom.
Good luck Helen and remember there is no shame in contacting relationship professionals such as relate.
Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 06:11 PM
If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
I noticed that you are curious.
I am a Community Leader of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Forum.
We would love to have you join in on our discussion's and maybe post a new topic.
Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 07:03 PM
Posted Mon Mar 03, 2014 03:13 AM
Posted Mon Mar 03, 2014 03:42 AM
yeah, that means you and your stbxbf are splitting up. Sexual incompatibility can not be ignored in the courtship phase. You would just end up getting divorced a few years later. you probably should give him one last chance, saying clearly that the relationship is over unless he can satisfy your sexual needs. But sounds like you already tried that. good luck dear.
btw, most guys react poorly to their woman saying its ok to go find another girlfriend on the side. what they instead hear you saying is "I want a divorce", or "I am having an affair and feel guilty, so if I can trick you into an affair too I will feel better" or "I no longer love you". Despite mens bluster and contrary to porn sites....most men really want to just fuck their partners.
This post has been edited by spud14: Mon Mar 03, 2014 03:46 AM
Posted Mon Mar 03, 2014 07:57 AM
if it looks like he is interested in sex again, have him play the dom the next time. force his mind to think up kinky sex acts to actually do on you. just you talking about it, asking for more sex, is obviously not going to work. You have to show him physically, get his own body to tell him "wow, this is good".
This post has been edited by spud14: Mon Mar 03, 2014 08:05 AM
Posted Wed Mar 05, 2014 09:06 PM