Foolish fears, or justified concerns?
Posted Thu Apr 03, 2014 08:37 PM
Posted Sun Apr 20, 2014 09:49 PM
Posted Mon Apr 21, 2014 07:41 AM
There are a lot of pitfalls, bad situations, unsavory characters, and drama out there, and studiously avoiding them while actively seeking a gay lover can be difficult. It's almost enough to make a man give up in loneliness and frustration. But when fate leads you into the arms and into the bed of Mr Right, the struggle was worth it.
I found mine four years ago - my professional, intellectual, and emotional equal; my handsome, hung, alpha-male top, who I was made and put here to please in every way; the yang to my yin. Our sexual, mental, and emotional natures mesh together so perfectly, we both know we were made for each other, and meant to be together, and had we met 25 years ago, both our lives would have taken a different path, a path we would have walked together. The trust and understanding between us are built from a deeper love and commitment that bind the two of us into one, and neither of us will break that love or trust.
I know you're not looking for a life partner, or even a gay lover in the emotional sense, and that, in a way, can make the search a bit easier. You're not worried about falling in love with a man or having a man break your heart, but you still want and need that trust and commitment.
Good luck in your search, and be careful!
Posted Sun May 25, 2014 07:38 AM
with men or secretly want to. It's just pretty much impossible to bring it up if you're both leading a straight life.
And that is the big question..........how does one bring it up, and also with someone you can trust. Not to mention all the concerns with STD's! That is one of my biggest fears.
Posted Sun May 25, 2014 10:17 PM
Posted Mon May 26, 2014 06:56 AM
I think deep kissing, feeling each others' bodies, with me feeling the over the top sensations of having stockings and heels on as well as nylon panties and a leather bra would be supremely cathartic in view of the way males are indoctrinated to interface with each other from a VERY early ago. Perhaps the female clothing facilitates or allows a guy to be soft and tender with a man instead of distant and hard?
It could be therapeutic?
I'd like to record that part of the encounter for my own record. I would like to record getting fucked too--if only to hear what kind of off the wall shit I would say. I bet it would touch a part of my consciousness that would unleash a torrent of non sequiturs!
This post has been edited by nepenthean: Mon May 26, 2014 06:59 AM