Anal Stretching Toys
Posted Thu Jul 17, 2014 05:15 PM
Posted Thu Jul 17, 2014 05:26 PM
Posted Thu Jul 17, 2014 05:46 PM
I know we all are different but this is my experience.
Posted Thu Jul 17, 2014 06:10 PM
I've been with my boyfriend over four years now, and he still makes me gasp when he pushes into me!
"Oh, FUCK, babe!" I pant breathlessly as he opens me and sinks inside. "You've got a big dick!"
"I just never get tired of hearing you say that!" he says as he pushes the rest of his eight inches up my ass.
But after the first minute of getting used to having his cock up my butt (again), I'm good to go (not that he would have paused or slowed anyway), and I'm giving him back as much as he's giving me.
It's going to take weeks of patient - and fun - exercises. Fingers - one, two, even three, when she's ready. Get a nice buttplug that she can wear comfortably around the house for an hour or two at a time. It's a lot of fun for both of you to fuck her while she has the plug up her ass. (I'll offer that it's a lot of fun for her to blow you while YOU have the buttplug up your ass!) Have her do Kegel Exercises ever day - they're not just for the pussy (AND they're not just for the women!); they can do wonderful, magical things for the anal sphincters. I've left purple bruise rings around the base of my boyfriend's dick on several occasions - my turn to leave him panting and breathless.
"FUCK, you've got a tight ass, babe!!"
Use a good lube. We're never without Astroglide gel.
Give my blog post, A Primer for Anal Sex, a read together. I hope you'll both enjoy it, and find it informative.
And finally, from someone who absolutely ADORES anal sex, and loves every moment his handsome, hung, hard, sexy boyfriend's dick is balls-deep up his ass, feel free to ask me anything!
This post has been edited by Nicky60: Thu Jul 17, 2014 06:13 PM
Posted Sun Jul 20, 2014 07:26 AM
Posted Sun Jul 20, 2014 10:14 AM
Here are a few pics showing how easy to take big with a little stretching
Posted Sun Jul 20, 2014 01:30 PM
Anyhow, first thing we did was switch lubes to an oil based one (one designed for that kinda play). Bought a 'kit' of different sized units, they don't look like the real thing at all, but they taper well. However, turns out that the toys weren't all that necessary, first thing I tried was to let my dick get a little soft so I wasn't rock hard. First night, we went with SirFoggy's advice and just went all the way in, slowly but carefully (which wasn't all that easy w/o being rock hard), when I was finally in she turned (we tried the spoon position first in hopes it would prevent it from going to deep) and said, "is it in?". Never in my life had I heard that before, major ego kill - what she meant to say was that it wasn't that bad. Damage was done and I lost my hardon although I think it was more due to the fact that I was already semi-hard and also it was a lot tighter than I was expecting and not as lubed up as the vagina is.
Second night we were much more prepared - read some stuff Nicky wrote. She fully cleaned in advance without me and squirted some coconut oil into her arse (we've been together for a while and don't use condoms so no worry of it breaking, etc). Tried the same thing as the night before but this time fully hard, I was able to get my whole dick in but you could tell she was in severe pain which for me at least was a huge turnoff. Anyhow, I just left my cock in there and played with her as long as possible, did some slight thrusting but I just wasn't feeling it, nor was she. Finally, I said fk it and said why don't you just sit on it, that way your more in control, although I was slightly nervous as it's not exactly recommended as a beginner position for anal sex (and we don't really do doggy style much at all because even when I'm super careful I occasionally hit her cervix and she hates that -- I figured the rectum being even smaller that wasn't even a choice for a position at least not until tomorrow night.) Needless to say, the coygirl thing is really fucking hot and I was really turned on so she had to take my dick at a time it was about as hard as it gets. She went down slow at first, she seemed to have trouble positioning her/it/me but then I finally felt the tip go in, and she actually let out a sigh (the pleasurable or relief type). Much to my shock, she went all the way down and engulfed my cock in no time flat and she said holy fuck that feels amazing. She put her hands back and started riding it like a champ, she didn't want me playing with her or anything - I guess having a cock in her arse puts enough pressure on her vagina because she said it felt great everywhere, she did start rubbing her clit though. I was so happy I just laid back and watched, it was really hot, I wasn't able to cum because I was afraid to switch positions after finally finding something that worked, but she did and said it was by far one of the best orgasms she had ever had.
I really wasn't expecting it to be all that great for her, just something new, especially because women don't have a prostrate. All I have to say is thank you for your help and now I'm really curious about trying something my self (I'll stick to the baby stretcher or get a plug to try when I'm fucking her -- those 'things' roadking has are scary imo).
Posted Mon Jul 21, 2014 06:55 PM