A Wild Ex Has Appeared! What should I do?
Posted Sat Aug 02, 2014 06:53 PM
Posted Sat Aug 02, 2014 07:10 PM
What can you possibly hope to achieve by talking to her? Your GF, from the way you describe her, is hardly going to agree to you fucking the ex, so why even bother going down this pointless route?
Just walk away. If you really want a chance at this relationship, then give up on the ex idea and forget it ever happened.
Posted Sat Aug 02, 2014 07:13 PM
Posted Sat Aug 02, 2014 07:13 PM
You had your chance with her, you missed your chance and you should just leave it at that. To be honest, if it was me and I was sexually deprived and then split from a man like that. I wouldn't be coming back, at all, unless I was up to no good planning something horrible, and that sounds like what this girl is doing right now, so if you keep at this your relationship with your current ex is going to be wrecked, and don't think the girl your dreaming about has any plans on being a rebound and picking up the seconds on a guy she couldn't get laid by in the first place.
With your possessive current GF, you should probably stop giving her reasons to be that.
You are playing with fire with this, and you probably won't listen so proceed at your own risk.
Posted Sat Aug 02, 2014 07:22 PM
But yes, I do take peoples' advice, otherwise I wouldn't have posted this. I appreciate everyone's input.
Posted Sun Aug 03, 2014 12:18 AM
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Posted Mon Aug 04, 2014 04:31 AM
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Posted Tue Aug 05, 2014 04:27 PM
Everyone else seems to have covered most of the bases pretty well to this point, I won't bother rehashing the same points. I did have another thing I wanted to point out however. Hopefully as a tip, or aid in your current relationship.
This line ...
... and this line ...
... are going to form the basis for my reply.
I'm going to refrain from attempting to insinuate any personality issues your current girl friend may have. However if she is prone to being upset about you spending time with other females she may have some issues with trust. Which given the second line I quoted there I can certainly understand. This is what I would call a feedback loop. She starts the loop by getting upset and jealous. In a relatively new relationship I would find a certain degree of that acceptable. As you feel out the boundaries of trust you can extend to a person that can usually lead to hurt feelings. If your response is to hide, lie, or omit relationships you have with other people her insecurities will be reinforced. She will get angrier and this will force you to hide more. To which she get's angrier and so on and so forth.
I would recommend ending this cycle before it starts to cause harm. I know it's far easier said than done but I would strongly urge you to inform your current girlfriend of your contact with your ex. Put all of your cards on the table for her to see. Doing this buys you some trust and she will have less and less reason to feel insecure about your relationship. Thus her jealousy and such should taper off and eventually subside entirely.
Besides if you ever want to entertain the idea of bringing other people into your sex life you're going to have to work on the base issue of trust. This current method will not get you there. In fact chances are you'll lose them both.
Posted Sun Aug 17, 2014 01:24 PM
Posted Sun Aug 17, 2014 01:28 PM
Posted Thu Aug 28, 2014 03:37 PM
Still, part of me wishes my girlfriend would be ok with a mff threesome The idea of 2 pussies just turns me on bad for some reason
Posted Thu Aug 28, 2014 10:47 PM
Don't do it. its a trap. Your GF wants you to think it is ok, but expects you to choose her instead of this past person. You, by luck, seem to have passed the test.
if your current GF really is ok with it, she will pick a female friend for the three of you to have sex with! and I can bet she would not pick and ex GF of yours! lol
This post has been edited by spud14: Thu Aug 28, 2014 10:50 PM
Posted Fri Aug 29, 2014 03:35 PM
This post has been edited by lickit2stickit: Fri Aug 29, 2014 03:37 PM
Posted Thu Sep 25, 2014 07:19 PM
On a side note, for some reason, I've been super horny for a few other girls I work with lately. Maybe it's the lack of my girlfriend, but these girls whether taken or not, with their thin bodies and nice boobs. I feel like I need to be single just to ravage all these hot women. It's times like these I wish the world were more accepting of open relationships. The instinct to spread my seed is driving me up the walls.
And of course, right when I'm in a relationship I'm happy with, these women start showing interest in me. No girls are ever interested in me and it feels weird and confusing.
Posted Thu Sep 25, 2014 10:02 PM
Posted Thu Sep 25, 2014 10:23 PM
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