Posted Tue Aug 26, 2014 12:13 PM
Posted Wed Aug 27, 2014 08:21 AM
I don't know what you would call me,conveniently part time bi, not that it matters. I wouldn't say bi curious anymore because I have had experiences. I would consider having "Sex" with another guy would be kissing, hugging, fucking, going all out. Wondering what it was like and having the experience of sucking a cock seems acceptable for some reason, to me and others. One friend was gay and wanted me to go all out. I couldn't do it. I never felt a desire for a guy.
The first time, things happened where I was set up by a couple for a FMM. I went for it because I figured it to be a once in a lifetime experience. With the wifes encouragement, after the husband sucked my cock, she suggested I try sucking his, which I tried. 30 yrs later after my wife was no longer able to have sex, she told me to let our gay friend give me a bj and that she didn't think it was any big deal. My wife was the one who encouraged me to do it. After years of wondering about it and being teased with offers of some good pleasure, I took a shot. It wasn't meant to be a mutual thing at first bit it turned out to be a pretty cool experience. Even though I did it with him, I had no desire or thoughts about other dudes. I know Im an old fart, but women still make me melt. Im not a cheater, so that was out. Getting a bj and letting off some pressure wasn't so bad. The next time we were going to do it, he wanted to hug, kiss and that I should let loose. It just wasn't me. He moved away and then an old friend and I discovered each other were in the same boat. Where I would be too uptight to bring up the subject, he wasn't. We have given each other bjs several times already, even while the wives were yapping in the house. He had the curiosity too and he came out to me. We both fucked one of his old gfs together. He will suck my cock, I will suck his, but neither want mushy stuff. At this point in my life I don't question it, I go with the opportunity. Here is another funny thing. When he and his wife come over he and I will go out to the pool house. My wife asked where we were going ,I said to smoke a joint. His smarty pants wife said "they are probably going to blow each other", where my wife replied "Good, he won't be horny later". Little did they think their joke was a reality.
This post has been edited by topper: Wed Aug 27, 2014 08:27 AM
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Posted Thu Nov 27, 2014 06:53 AM
You have described it perfectly!! I have a friend that I once thought about bringing this up to, but if they aren't interested, then you risk losing the friendship. Hard to find someone to trust to get together with.
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Posted Tue Dec 02, 2014 10:36 AM
Can I ask you if you developed a curiosity because you weren't having sex at home?
Posted Tue Dec 02, 2014 12:21 PM
Topper, I've always shyed away from nudist resorts as I was under the impression they present themselves as family friendly. Are there resorts that are more for adults? Or is this "under the radar" at many places?
Posted Tue Dec 02, 2014 01:06 PM
One nudist resort that is for adults only is Hedonism II in Jamaica. It is a wild swinging place that allows sex in full view of others.