Just heard of something called "blue walls" the female version of blue balls.
Posted Wed Sep 10, 2014 05:24 AM
Like blue balls for example. I know when a guy gets sexual frustrated and can't get a sexual release just yet people would call that guy having the "blue balls". I learned about that phrase years ago,but just recently I was wondering and thought to myself "What is the female equivalent to blue balls?"
And so I did some digging around the interwebs and found out there IS a name for the female version of blue balls. When women have it then that would be referred to them having the "blue walls".
Posted Wed Sep 10, 2014 05:34 AM
Because when I get sexually frustrated I get more red, and annoyed.
Posted Wed Sep 10, 2014 06:47 AM
Posted Wed Sep 10, 2014 07:08 AM
Posted Wed Sep 10, 2014 09:18 AM
So assuming a sexless marriage results from one partner not caring at all for sex, and assuming there is still some love in the relationship, then that sexless partner should be eager to give the sexy partner a "hall pass" to find a fuck buddy.
But she would want some boundaries. Like no love affair, just for sex. No diseases. Reasonably close by. No cheating (i.e. with permission) and probably consistency (once you determine the fuckbuddy is clean, you would want your spouse to keep using that one, not hang around at craigslist)
The two low desire partners can hang out together too, maybe see a movie or something, while the real fucking is going on.
So the concept has a sound foundation and ready audience.
The sites already around seem much more oriented to cheating affairs, than consentual open marriage situations. We can call the new website Blue balls and walls.com
This post has been edited by gonewild: Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:24 PM
Reason for edit:: Outside SF website initials removed by Mod
Posted Wed Sep 10, 2014 03:56 PM
Posted Wed Sep 10, 2014 04:09 PM
There is. It's called Ashley Madison.
Posted Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:08 PM
Hunnybunny: Yeah I guess it don't make much sense either when you put it that way. It also could be because it sounds similar to blue balls? I don't know.
spud14: LOL that does sounds like a good idea. The slogan for that site could say something like this "Feeling frustrated? Having the blues? Join us to find fellow members who feel the same!"
TheLibrarian: You know what I've read about that too. I guess that's their bodies response to feeling sexually frustrated,hence why it may be called the blue walls.