Posted Wed Oct 01, 2014 11:50 AM
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Posted Wed Oct 01, 2014 02:58 PM
I am 24, and the same way-shy, and still not sexually active. I go solo as well everyday almost-unless I am sick. I haven't even been on a date because I never felt mutual attraction. I like some guys, they couldn't be less interested. Guys like me, and it's the no=good ones.
But I have a guy crush I had for 2 years, and thinking of him gets me excited sometimes. So, I handle business while looking at a pic of him. I usually do it once a day, but for a time, it had gone up to twice a day, or in 1 night .
So, having high sex drive, or desire for sex is normal. And you need to handle it however you see fit, and that makes you comfortable. Maybe anxious
This post has been edited by VanillaChocolate: Wed Oct 01, 2014 02:59 PM
Posted Wed Oct 01, 2014 07:47 PM
I would only suggest respectfully that when the time comes for the REAL thing - remember sexual health safety.
Another issue is that a FIRST time gives you NO indication of quality - you'll have no comparison -
Another issue is "being comfortable" - with whats occurring - as an example - being faced with an enormous cock - as a "beginner" - your first reaction may not be to start sucking on it -
you have to FEEL comfortable xxx
Posted Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:40 PM
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Posted Thu Oct 02, 2014 02:30 PM
Well, I find that for anything-sex or other, if you have urges you wanna fight, or pull back a bit on, it's best to occupy yourself with other activities to take your mind off of it.
Posted Tue Nov 04, 2014 12:56 AM
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