Give her a try? She offered but should I?
Posted Sat Oct 11, 2014 10:41 AM
Yesterday, I stopped in to where I always buy coffee a few times a day. The girl behind the counter (who's had her own share of health problems and is separated from her husband now) asked me what I had planned for the weekend. I recited a long list of chores that I'd be doing but added that I would start by treating myself to a nice glass of wine and supper at a restaurant somewhere.
She responded, "Yuck. I don't do wine"
So, I said "Oh, you drink the hard stuff then?"
And she said, "Well, I like to make it hard and then drink it"!
I laughed and she giggled and I told her that it sounded like wonderful trouble to get into. She said that she loved that kind of trouble and asked me where I'd be eating and what time. She also said that I should park in a dark corner somewhere.
"Are you joking?", I asked.
"Not really. I miss stuff like that and I was hoping you'd take me up on the offer. You don't have to do much except sit back and enjoy. I just really need a man and you're the only nice guy that I see around here so I hope you'll say yes someday"
I told her that I was flattered but didn't say yes. I'll admit to looking for a dark spot somewhere when I went out to eat last night. It sounds like an offer I shouldn't refuse but I really don't want to get my hopes up too high. I don't really want a relationship right now but I could sure use some physical release and a dose of self esteem. My biggest fear is saying yes and she doesn't show up. I don't think I could handle that. Distance, age, etc., make the relationship piece a non-starter but is "fun" out of the question?
I hate being undecided and I don't want to say no and have her hurt like I would be if someone said no to me.
Posted Sat Oct 11, 2014 10:55 AM
does she talk that way - friendly - teasing - to all her regular customers.... an as said above - how much do you like that coffee shop ?
Posted Sat Oct 11, 2014 11:24 AM
I'm not used to being talked to like that so it's a little hard to believe. I'm still kind of flattered. Did I miss my chance here? Do you think she really "needs" it that bad? I thought only guys were like that!
Posted Sat Oct 11, 2014 11:33 AM
I'm a 59 yo an I ASSURE YOU WOMEN HAVE NEEDS AS MUCH AS MEN
I hav'nt had a long "SEX LIFE" - but
everyones different as to their individual level of need - mine is sky high - an being "without" is TORTURE.
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So, time will tell. Please keep your fingers crossed. Not your legs, just your fingers, LOL.
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