Conversation during sex (NOT the dirty kind)
Posted Fri Jan 23, 2015 10:44 AM
Let me paint you a picture. I've had this gf once who would talk during sex. Things like: My friend "Michelle" got a cat for her birthday, she doesn't even know anything about cats. Or: When we go to the supermarket we should get some extra milk, we're almost out.
I always felt like she wasn't really there with me in that bed... I don't know, what do you guys thing? These kinds of conversation, acceptable or not? Are they a turn-off?
I should point out that this wasn't a "once in a while" situation, but more a "80% of the time" situation.
Posted Fri Jan 23, 2015 12:42 PM
No way - NOT acceptable for me.
I mean HOW does someone DO THAT.
I had a BF who'd say how tired he was - BEFORE - well - ok - forget it - that was bad enough - geez - that I'd want to after being told that... but chatting about "things" - HOW DOES someone DO THAT - its offensive - rude - not done
Posted Sat Jan 24, 2015 01:12 AM
Posted Sat Jan 24, 2015 04:20 AM
Posted Sat Jan 24, 2015 05:30 AM
"Think that ceiling could use a lick of paint ... "
Posted Sat Jan 24, 2015 07:42 AM
NOPE - had a SESSION last night - on another planet an couldn't speak - anything coherently.
Jamie - " I don't believe you " - well - I DO - but am at a loss -
Posted Sat Jan 24, 2015 12:03 PM
haha, no unfortunatly it wasnt anything like that rosie
minx - what did you mean with, i dont believe you?
Posted Sat Jan 24, 2015 01:23 PM
may one enquire what became of this gf
This post has been edited by THE MINX: Sat Jan 24, 2015 01:38 PM
Posted Mon Jan 26, 2015 06:26 AM
I've been there, done that and have the emotional scars to prove it. Neither of us could be what the other wanted, so I quit before anymore damage was done. Lesson learned as per my signature: water and fire don't make good bedfellows.
Posted Mon Jan 26, 2015 10:43 AM
Posted Wed Jan 28, 2015 10:36 AM
@Minx - I have indeed Minx, a lot nicer I'm a fairly confident guy so no worries
Posted Thu Jan 29, 2015 02:45 AM
but i've never done it/had it happen to me. i have had 2 guys who have unloaded a bunch of emotional shit onto me during sex, which was weird enough.
Posted Thu Jan 29, 2015 03:10 PM
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2015 11:11 AM
I tried that once, ... without success
Posted Sat Feb 07, 2015 07:11 AM
It was only sometimes, and it was hard to keep up the conversation after awhile, but that was part of the fun.
But no, I wouldn't like it if it seemed like she just didn't care.
Posted Thu Mar 10, 2016 05:43 AM
It was so frustrating and such a turn off but I just tried to ignore it and fuck her hard enough that she couldn't continue talking when she started these random unsexy midsex convos
Posted Thu Mar 10, 2016 06:58 PM