advice on pick-ups
Posted Wed Feb 04, 2015 10:33 PM
Posted Wed Feb 04, 2015 10:48 PM
Jus play it cool N calm. Worked out for Me :-)
Posted Thu Feb 05, 2015 02:19 AM
Posted Thu Feb 05, 2015 05:46 AM
Cheesy lines can break the ice but make it clear you're being ironic.
Don't be drunk.
Ask questions, nothing too personal though- find out about her interests.
Don't talk about yourself for goodness' sake, a little bit of mystery is sexy!
Be complimentary but not to the point of making her uncomfortable.
Don't try too hard
I'm sure there's a lot of websites with ridiculous advice and techniques, "guaranteed to work" but of course, everybody is different.
Good luck :-D X
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2015 11:53 AM
Be friendly to start with. Don't make the initial approach oozing sexual desire. That's a complete turn off right there.
Be funny. Keep it light. We all like to have fun, so show us you know how to be fun.
Express interest in her personality. A man who is only interested in my looks is going to hear "no" every time. Even if it's just a one-nighter, show some interest in who she is.
If things are going well, start touching her. Lean in and lay a hand on her arm while talking (but remember to remove your hand when you finish your sentence!) Put your hand on her back to guide her to a table, or out the door. Little non-sexual touches can be very arousing. But keep it reigned in and don't cross the line into creepy groping.
Make eye contact. Not 100% of the time because that would be weird, but when she's speaking look directly at her. This shows you are interested in what she is saying and not scoping out the bar for a hotter chick somewhere else.
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2015 01:06 PM
Posted Mon May 11, 2015 09:40 AM
It's been ages since I've played the singles game, I've forgotten what the rules are, but I do know that if I found myself single again, I would not try to be Rico Suave. That jacket would not fit at all.
Posted Mon May 11, 2015 10:16 AM