sex before or after marriage did you have sex before or after marriage
Posted Sun Mar 08, 2015 08:33 AM
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Posted Sun Mar 08, 2015 02:13 PM
Last thing you want is buyer's remorse on honeymoon night!
and if you are that strongly religious to not do the above, then your contract with God and spouse should carry you thru even if sex with the spouse is shyte!
Posted Mon Mar 09, 2015 01:15 AM
Me, personally, I am religious. But don't plan to wait until marriage. Why? Because marriage isn't guaranteed. Hell, falling in love is not guaranteed, and let alone falling in love with a good partner that loves you back.
So I started to feel a bit ago that if I was lucky, I would at least have 1 good relationship with a decent man that I was attracted to. Because with how things are for me, I don't see marriage in my future. And sometimes I don't even see mutual attraction in it
However, I have not budged on wanting a relationship and exclusivity for sex. Not interested in casual and ONS. Just doesn't appeal. But a guy that I got to know, and it seemed he was interested in my as a person, then sure. Any guys I have liked sexually I saw a good bit of and knew. Wasn't instant.
This post has been edited by VanillaChocolate: Mon Mar 09, 2015 01:20 AM
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2015 03:08 PM
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Posted Thu Mar 26, 2015 04:41 PM
But isn't even terrible sex pretty good?
Posted Thu Mar 26, 2015 04:54 PM
For men maybe. But terrible sex for a woman can be frustrating is she doesn't orgasm, because her partner didn't care to do what's necessary to give her one. Or painful if he wants to rush and she's not properly prepared, or if the guy is too rough once he's inside.
Men, even if a woman is a dud in bed, still has a higher chance of orgasm still and being somewhat relieved, even if the sex itself wasn't too fun. A woman isn't guaranteed an orgasm through sex.
As some women said, they hate ONS because it's more possibility for the guy to be selfish and not give good sex, and no orgasm so she's even more frustrated than before the sex. So they opt for masturbation and toys rather than a ONS if they have no long-term partner like a FWB or boyfriend/husband.
So for women, terrible sex can range from frustrating, uncomfortable, to painful.
This post has been edited by VanillaChocolate: Thu Mar 26, 2015 05:04 PM
Posted Thu Mar 26, 2015 06:31 PM
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Posted Mon May 11, 2015 09:10 AM
Posted Mon May 11, 2015 11:58 AM
but great sex is addictive - morish - healthy - wonderful.
if your' sexually compatible that's GREAT. If not - SHITE...problem Houston.
trouble can be if peeps act like they love sex and soon as your married - ZERO - what a con trick.
Posted Mon May 11, 2015 08:43 PM
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Posted Sun Jul 26, 2015 01:04 AM
I had sex before marriage and I believe that sex before marriage is a good idea. One needs to know about the other's sexual compatibility before you're both committed.
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2015 05:48 PM
Posted Mon Jul 27, 2015 05:55 PM