Posted Fri Apr 24, 2015 07:10 AM
I keep trying it with my partner and getting no where maybe get a wink back even when sending him naked pictures.
He apparently can not do it and doesn't know what to say. As I pointed out he does it in the bedroom when im with him all the time and that all I want is the same thing but in a text etc I don't expect him to take pictures.
And I am still waiting his excuse now is its easier in the bedroom because Im there. Any ideas how to get him replying and it actually is talking dirst not just a smiley face?
I have tried naked pictures, pics from in bath, me playing with myself and obviously telling him what I would like to do nothing seems to work.
Posted Fri Apr 24, 2015 10:04 AM
Perhaps we should talk in private, hmm?
Posted Fri Apr 24, 2015 11:17 AM
If it's of any help, here's my take on all the cyber stuff. I'm 110% hands-on kind of a guy. Picture of a beautiful woman makes me only to recognise the fact that she is beautiful but that's all to it. It wont make me hard, fantasise about having sex with her or any of that. It's just an image, blob of pixels if you will, I can't touch, kiss, lick or fuck. It just doesn't cut it for me. Completely different story if that very same woman is in flesh right next to me.
So if your partner is anything like me there's very little you can do to change him. Insisting on or even putting pressure on him to take part in something that he doesn't see as fun or something enjoyable could end up the way neither of you two will be very happy with. Enjoy the time and all the naughty fun you two have when you are together. If naughty/dirty texts are something you absolutely can't do with out then you should reconsider your options.
Posted Fri Apr 24, 2015 11:46 AM
When he answers you reply with a question, like with what, where, how, using, etc.
Posted Fri Apr 24, 2015 11:51 AM
but would be a way maybe to ask "things" without being face to face if one was shy or it was a delicate observation to comment on ( refer to post by topic maker ) ???
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Posted Fri Apr 24, 2015 11:59 AM
Posted Fri Apr 24, 2015 01:47 PM
but do not give up so soon. he might not know what to say. you need to lead him a little. have you tried role play? have him pretend he is driving home from work, and you (a female police officer) pull him over. you give him a ticket, but as you are handing it to him, type "but...there is something you can do to get out of this ticket...." and see if he can play along. Giving him a framework to respond in might be all he needs.
Posted Fri Apr 24, 2015 02:18 PM
We have still to try role play but its something he has agreed to try with me.
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Posted Mon Apr 27, 2015 03:02 AM
I agree Q as well but I find it a big turn on so while I am working late downstairs on website it helps me because when I do go upstairs I am already turned on.
Posted Mon Apr 27, 2015 07:15 PM
I am very inclined towards sexually stimulating convos, but the other person has to intrigue me as a whole. The more implied and less explicit the chat, the better. I love it when I can't tell when someone is interested or not. Wierd, huh?
This post has been edited by ilyushin: Mon Apr 27, 2015 07:16 PM
Posted Tue Apr 28, 2015 01:22 AM