Beginner Sex toys One foot in...Not literally!
Posted Sun May 31, 2015 05:11 PM
My wife and I have great sex. We have been married 13 years (together 18) and sex is generally getting better as we age (We're 37 now).
Last year I have introduced my wife to a vibrator, well sort of. Years ago we bought a small "massager" from sharper image that's curved in such a way.
it wasn't until last year that I packed it in a weekend romantic getaway we were taking along with a fun sex board game we play.
I Have spoken to her about getting sex toys in the pst but she's pretty shy about that. On this particular trip she came a bunch of times all intense orgasms and she loved it but I still see her a bit reluctant. I brought it up last week that we should get a real one, she was not too keen. I told her I wanted to get a waterproof one and she opened up a little more to the idea but obviously not with the same level of excitement as me.
I love watching my wife cum and giving her pleasure for me it's a huge turn on.
I'm going to go ahead and buy something but wanted to get some recommendations from you guys.
Her orgasms are mostly clitoral but I was wondering if I should get a dildo as well. Would love to use on her while I eat her out.
She's shy but she like to cum hard, also she seems like she doesn't want to be involved in the selection. She like it when I choose things for her so I figured as long as it brings her pleasure I'm safe.
What do you guys think?
Posted Sun May 31, 2015 07:49 PM
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2015 12:39 PM
Then when she is a bit more comfortable get a toy that it basic( non rabbit) but covers what you want.
in the end its your $$$$ so get what you think you both will like and enjoy.
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2015 12:45 PM
We both bought them for me to use myself when he was out to get used to it because I am shy despite how my posts sound.
After using them myself and realising how great they were I felt more comfortable letting my partner use them on me.
Don't try one dislike and give up each toy and women are different a toy one person loves another could hate.
Its all about experimenting games are a great way to do it. I have a card game where it gives you things to do small things like kissing your partner and dripping some wine in their mouth to full bondage tied up blindfolded etc.
Ask her what she would feel comfortable with. If need be she can message me I a. More then happy to help her if she's not confident enough to talk to a guy about it either on here or email happy to help
This post has been edited by kinkybyheart: Mon Jun 01, 2015 12:47 PM
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2015 08:34 PM
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Posted Tue Jun 02, 2015 08:16 AM
The dildos and cock rings are one thing, make sure you check out some lotions and lubes as well; quite a few of them are safe to lick up, hint hint.
And HAVE FUN WITH IT ALL! The short time we used our toys (She's lost interest it seems) we had some fun times.
Posted Tue Jun 02, 2015 02:23 PM
there is no right or wrong as long as your both into it together - I'm an online shopper and a quick run to amazon navigate to sex toys sort by Avg Customer Review and click 4 stars and above
and that will narrow it down to the top 1000 or so........... set a budget and fill your cart - in a few days you'll have all kinds of new things to try