How did you get your partner to consider a third?
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2015 02:36 PM
Never happened,never will.
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2015 03:56 PM
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2015 04:44 PM
Posted Thu Jul 23, 2015 02:07 PM
Never happened,never will.
When my husband made the suggestion for bringing another woman into our bed, I said the same thing. When I asked him why , it was because he wanted to see me with another woman. Then I told him that I expected the same thing and wanted to see him with the other guy. His old homophobic attitude put an end to that request. That was then.
Posted Wed Aug 12, 2015 05:10 PM
Never happened,never will.
Hi I'm Sally, my husband and I have been in MFM threesomes for a few years now, how we started was sort of like this,
one night when we were making love John my husband said something that sounded like "I wish I had more hands to caress you with" now not every time but now and then things similar was said, this went on for some time and I was thinking about it, again after a few months we talked about it outside the bedroom, I knew John was a voyeur he explained that to me not long after we met,
nothing really happened for a few weeks then one night we went to a club and an old friend of John's came in named Ron, funny I also knew him because a few years ago he had gone out with a friend of mine,
we had a good time drinking and dancing alternatively with John and Ron, we decided to meet again the next week then again the following week, and so on, now as luck would have it, our house was almost in a direct line with Ron so Ron popped in for a night cap, we carried on our dancing just like down the club,
but maybe a little more sexually, that night in bed John asked if I fancied Ron, I sort of said yea I suppose so, anyway John and I agreed to give it a try, the next weekend Ron came back and as usual some close dancing John went out to get the drinks, Ron had an erection, he asked me if we could see more of each other, I casually said "why not tonight, then I told him that John and I were thinking of inviting another man to join us in bed and would he like to be him, he jumped at the chance, the rest is history, I have written about what happen and got it in a folder some where, Sally
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2015 05:30 PM
My wife was a virgin when we met. I wasn't. We fucked for the first time on the night that I proposed to her and she accepted. That was in the summer 1977. We got married in the summer of 1979 and had already been having a lot of sex for the two years that we were engaged. After we got married, the sex just kind of stagnated. Her sex drive always was (and still is) lower than mine, so I had to push a lot to get her for fuck at times.
After a few years, I started having this fantasy. I started wanting to see another man fuck her. Finding a guy to do it wouldn't be very hard, as my wife was smoking, Playboy model hot back then. (That's not just my opinion. All of our male friends thought so too.) However, I wanted it to be someone that she knew and was comfortable with. I was sure that someone like that would be my only shot, if I tried to coax her into it. So, in spring of 1985, just a few months before our sixth anniversary, I casually mentioned, one day, that it was a shame she'd had never had the opportunity to experience other men sexually before we met, especially since she knew that I’d been with other women before her. I was just interested to see how she reacted to the topic and, initially, she was more or less indifferent. Over the next few weeks, I kept bringing the subject up in various ways, each time, I’d hint a bit more that maybe it wasn’t too late, just because she was married. Eventually, after she was used to the subject, I came out and said that I think she should have the chance to know another man intimately, and that it seemed to me that Steve (a very close male friend) was the obvious SAFE choice. While she didn’t latch onto the recommendation, she didn’t reject it out-of-hand either. Her standard response to my suggestion of her and Steve “having sex” quickly became, "Sure, if he's interested." So, at that point, I was half way there. The next time I got together with Steve, I brought up the topic and told him what I had in mind. After I convinced him that I wasn't joking and he got over his astonishment, he readily agreed, if my wife was willing.
At this point, we'd all seen each other completely naked as we frequently went out to a remote beach on a rural stream to sunbathe together, so Steve and my wife had both seen all there was to see of each other. I kept bringing it up individually to each of them, so that the idea would become very familiar and comfortable. Then one night, Steve came over and all three of us had quite a bit to drink. That was the first time that the three of us together talked about the two of them fucking. Nothing happened that night, mainly because we were all too plowed to perform. However, the next time we went out to sunbathe (about two weeks later) Steve fucked my wife for the very first time. That evening, I talked to her about it to see if she'd enjoyed herself or not. As it turned out, she did, immensely. From that day on, the threesome was off and running.