Getting married soon - nervous wedding night sex !!!
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2015 03:26 PM
Getting married soon , mid 20's girl , getting really nervous about wedding night sex !!
What do I wear , I was think a pretty baby doll and knickers , Is this OK or will he be expecting stockings & suspenders.
Will my new husband expect oral sex ? will he perfom oral sex on me and do I keep my knickers on at this time ?
We have talked about doing it in the missionary position ? , again do I allow my new husband to remove my knickers?
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2015 03:31 PM
I wore stockings and suspenders as mr sharp loves that! And yes we both performed oral just enjoy the moment and don't panic xxx
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2015 04:35 PM
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2015 07:37 PM
Just walk into the room NUDE !
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2015 09:15 PM
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2015 09:29 PM
Q was pretty much spot on, if you just wear your naked self, he's going to be thrilled.
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2015 09:48 PM
Sweetheart - sexual COMPATIBILITY is SO IMPORTANT....
from your post - seems you havn't tried him out - nor he you
these are questions I think you SHOULD BE COMFORTABLE enough to talk to HIM ABOUT .... if your' here - because you can't TALK TO HIM .... ...yet you "found" your' way HERE....
may be worth putting a wedding back ...
at 25 - there's a LOT of years ....
HOPEFULLY happily and fulfilled ...
being ABLE to TALK TOGETHER especially about SEX - THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IN THE WORLD - AS YET - UNTAXED - IS PARAMOUNT
Love Jen xx
This post has been edited by the minx: Tue Sep 29, 2015 09:49 PM
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2015 11:51 PM
Posted Wed Sep 30, 2015 03:34 AM
really just let it happen
I remeber when I got married that night best night in the world
and when we got home we just let it happen
I don't even remember what she had on I just rember I be waking up next to her the rest of my life
just be happy and enjoy
deep breaths it will all be good
wear what ever u like I wont be on long lol
This post has been edited by D M: Wed Sep 30, 2015 04:58 AM
Posted Wed Sep 30, 2015 03:56 AM
Really just go with the flow and enjoy the night and don't over think about it. Remember the night is much about you as it is to him. And as another member said, you may be too tired anyway to really want to do it and if it doesn't turn out what you expected there is always the next night and the next night etc. And there is no rule to say you have to have sex on your wedding night. That night is for you and your husband to decide what you both feel comfortable in doing.
Good luck and I hope you two get to spend many happy years together.
Posted Thu Oct 01, 2015 09:10 AM
It appears our Lady is a virgin. I ask - Is her bridegroom ? Or both virgins of such young age ?
I never had sex till aged 25 BTW.
Marriage is indeed written to be an honourable state....BUT - it can also be the lonliest place in the world.
I feel concerned - in that - has her groom NOT spoken to her about SEX ? Why is she here - asking us - and not discussing these issues with her groom... surely even taking into account - mayhap religious convictions - or her groom being "respectful" ....has HE NOT attempted ANYTHING with her ?
Is SEX NOT part of HIS wishes ?
Because .... our Lady's body WILL ( AT SOME POINT ) be curious ....CRAVE ....
Does our Lady want children ....has THIS been discussed ? It seems NOTHING has been discussed (to me).
Are there not "classes" of discussion ... has any mention been made ?
SEX ought to be able to be discussed as "naturally" as the weather / food ...hobbies ....
This is our Lady's future. In 2015 - a woman IS UNDER NO LAWFUL/MONETARY PRESSURE to enter a state of matrimony.
I have so many bells sounding off - an TRULY without any intent - except our Lady's WELLBEING.
I'l leave it here - truly I'm NOT trying to spoil OP's opinions. CARE - YES.
x J x
Posted Fri Oct 02, 2015 01:43 AM
But we don't buy a car without a test drive. Why would we marry without a test sex?
Test drive this man before it's too late.
If you do buy the car without a test drive, then wear what feels comfortable to you for your first drive. Unless he has a problem, he'll cum no matter what. The question is: will he know how to make you cum? He'd better, because since you don't talk to him, you'll not be telling him what you like.
Then sex will be boring to you, in one year you won't be doing it anymore, after baby is born, and he'll be another one of those men who loves his wife, but is here all the time, because he's in a sexless marriage. Or worse.
Posted Wed Oct 07, 2015 03:44 PM
Posted Tue Nov 10, 2015 09:52 PM
Just be yourself. Wear what you really want to wear the most! Do what you want to do the most!
If it comes from your heart and your true personality then your opening a door for him to meet you
there in your deepest sensuality.
Posted Thu Nov 12, 2015 01:29 AM