Very lost right now...
Posted Sun Oct 25, 2015 07:14 PM
Posted Sun Oct 25, 2015 08:46 PM
That definitively sucks...I feel for you and your kids, and can put myself in your place. Don't let what others think of you define you. Be the man and father you know you need to be for your kids, leery them be the ones who bash you all they want but don't bash then to the kids, do the right thing by them, and move on. You may be 10 years in the hole but you have kids who I am sure will be able to make up their mind on the truth and the less, and the fact you don't lash out but continue to tray mom with respect will speak volumes
Posted Sun Oct 25, 2015 09:11 PM
I'd be damned if I'd let them see me suffer from this , get rights to your kids , & live like Charlie Sheen ...
You've paid your life's debt in a living in Hell , you owe the rest of your life to "YOU" , strut like a Boss !
Go out , make new friends , have fun , & have as little as absolutely necessary with those who'd love to see you fail , be a raging success in spite of them , & have a blast doing it .
Here , just hit my problem solving button ........................
Posted Mon Oct 26, 2015 02:23 AM
Believe me there IS someone out there for everyone!
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Posted Tue Oct 27, 2015 01:37 AM
You may regret marrying her but remember she is the mother of your children so I'm sure you don't regret that. Move on and keep your chin up. Yes I'm sure you feel like shit but there are people worse off than you. Stay respectful to everyone, that way you wont be stooping down to their level. Its there lost that you left them and their family. Those type of people will never be happy with what they have, they will always snide and sneer at those who are successful and they will always try to bring others down instead of themselves improving their lives. Just remember to continue to love and cherish your children, even if you don't get to see them as often as you like. Children are smarter than what we grant them, they will know whats going on.
If you need help mentally feel free to seek counsoling. There is no shame in doing so. Depression is a disease just like any other disease so seek help if you need to. There are websites out there for such a thing, id post some links but im afraid that would be against the site rules.
Posted Tue Oct 27, 2015 05:42 AM
Posted Tue Oct 27, 2015 07:06 AM
THANKYOU FOR YOUR' HONESTY IN SHARING.
HEY - YOU WILL COME OUT THE OTHER SIDE - THATS A PROMISE
an you know - we is a BIG family here - we CARE about one another - an I KNOW THAT.
This post has been edited by the minx: Tue Oct 27, 2015 07:12 AM