Would you want to know or not?
Posted Mon Nov 16, 2015 01:19 AM
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This post has been edited by White.Rabbit: Mon Nov 16, 2015 02:32 AM
Posted Mon Nov 16, 2015 06:02 AM
Not really, I always let them know it was when they were ready to take that step, never made them feel they had to do it before they were ready. Not a turn off at all
Posted Mon Nov 16, 2015 06:46 AM
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Posted Mon Nov 16, 2015 11:23 PM
It would be helpful to know some of the details so that the partner could be a better lover but I don't believe every single thing needs to be talked about.
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2015 12:01 AM
If I were single I'd love to guide a lady as she explores that wonder of life >:]
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2015 01:20 AM
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Posted Tue Nov 17, 2015 12:22 PM
If it's just a squirt-n-scram, then meh...I wouldn't bother trying to know
Posted Sun Nov 29, 2015 10:28 AM
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Posted Tue Dec 01, 2015 10:05 PM
I don't think it would really matter. Once the connection is there then whatever experience they have can either be built on or expressed whenever they feel like it.
Posted Sun Dec 20, 2015 11:42 AM
It makes no difference to me; if she wants to share about her virginity, fine. But with all the preferences and hangups that people have sexually, virgins are probably no weirder or more difficult to deal with than others. That said, I'm over 60, so I think it's a moot point for me...
I never understood the appeal of virgins. 'Saving yourself': for what? This gift of purity makes absolutely no sense to me.
If you find a man you love and/or want to be with, and you want to cook for him, are you going to save your kitchen skills, not learning to cook anything at all until you marry/move in with him? What kind of gift is that? He gets to endure 2, 5, 10 years of shitty food until you either figure it out, or give up and serve frozen dinners? or until he moves back into his mom's?
Same thing with sex. An ideal partner is one who understands what pleases oneself and one's partner. You've heard the old line "you can't love anyone until you first love yourself"? Well, guess what: you can't please anyone sexually until you first learn how pleasing feels - and you learn that by being pleased.
I've only had sex with one virgin in my life (to my knowledge). I'd preferred a woman with experience; not so much to know what I'd like, but to help me to learn what she likes...
Posted Tue Dec 29, 2015 10:28 PM