Partner too short?
Posted Thu Dec 03, 2015 08:20 AM
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Posted Fri Dec 04, 2015 11:03 PM
I'm 5'7", and I've had sex with women from 4'6" to 6'1", and all sizes in between. Size is a fact, not a preference; we accommodate partners who like or prefer certain conditions or positions, just because they want them. You might consider accommodating a guy you really like who didn't choose or like or prefer to be short- he just is.
I had a stroke a few years ago, so I'm not able to have sex in the manner (and positions!) I want and like - for both my partners and me. It's hard enough to get past the look of pity when I limp into the room, being unable to attract a woman with strength and style - and confidence.
I'd expected that I'd be going home with Rosy Palms for the rest of my life, but I met a woman who was willing to accept the challenge of creating a enjoyable sex life. Suffice to say, we've worked around it, and on it and over it and through it. And because I can see me as an okay sex partner, I look at people with an air of self-assurance, not looking away, knowing (thinking) that their glances and assessment of me are not favorable.
Sex with your short guy takes some effort, it's true. Some of the things that we really really want take effort; our willingness to try tells us how much we want it...