Bit of a situation...
Posted Sat Jan 03, 2009 03:07 AM
So I met this woman online. She is 43 and I am 20. I have always fantasized about sleeping with an older woman and in fact it is my greatest sexual fantasy. We got around to talking about sex and now we're set to meet at the end of january. All of this would be good and all except for a couple of things. First of all I'm not attracted to her at all. Of course I can't tell her that because I don't want to hurt her. I probably should have said something but I just can't do it.
Second is that she is a little on the weird side. She is nice and all but I'll give you an example. I'll ask her a simple little question. "What do you like in a guy physically?" She can't give me a simple answer. Instead she lectures me on how I have to accept people for who they are and not be looking for anything physically. She just keeps going on and on. It's not just with that question but a lot of other things like that. I mean I know that inside is what counts but you can't tell me that looks don't matter at all.
Anyway, I think I'm going to meet her and see what happens. We're just meeting for a hang out so nothing should happen. I kinda don't want to but like I said, I don't want to hurt her feelings. It's past the point of fulfilling some stupid fantasy now. I just really don't want to hurt her. She was in love with a guy my age a little while ago and he fucked her over. I don't want to do the same thing. At least I already explained to her that I'm not looking for a relationship and neither is she.
Anyone have any advice for me or maybe a way to "let her off easy" so to speak? I could probably just block her on my AIM but that would be incredibly fucked up and I don't have the heart to do that. Maybe I'm just being too picky. She is a nice woman after all. Oh well, give me your opinion on the matter and I'll see what happens.
Posted Sat Jan 03, 2009 03:14 AM
Anyone have any advice for me or maybe a way to "let her off easy" so to speak? I could probably just block her...
You seem to be skipping a step in the story.
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