Potentionally pointless thread, but a need to vent
Posted Sat Jan 03, 2009 11:32 AM
In 2007 I was dating this girl Amanda. There were a few things about her that I found weird, but I just brushed them off. Most predominantly, she was the one always wanting to bring up three somes, with another woman. I always thought she was bi, but I never thought anything of it
As fate would have it, the new girl I am seeing, Amber, lived in the same village as Amanda did when they were growing up. Anyways, I made the mistake of asking her if she knew the family. She said she did, and with out thinking i said "oh, thoes two are amandas aunt and uncle" Amber started to laugh hysterically, but not at me... i don't think atleast! lol
Amber knew Amanda when they were small children. And as she recalled, she said that even before amber knew what it really meant, she thought Amanda was a lesbian.
Thinking back it made sence, a lot of it. For instance, amanda was extremely controlling, and possessive. she freaked out if another girl so much as looked at me, or even another guy for that matter. I ran into my best friend monique in pulbic one day with amanda, and all amanda did was glare at her and give her the evil eye. she hated all my female friends, and tried to integrate me with her male friends. I thought this was just her being jealous, and to some extent it was.
one day when me, amanda, and her mother were in walmart together, we ran into some of amandas extended family. her mother said amanda is dating someone right now, and a member of the other party asked "Whats HER name?" that was the first red flag. I was then introduced to these people.
a few months later me and her took a vacation together, and we camped out at her great aunt and uncles farm. she had not seen them in quite some time, and did not recognise her at first, they looked at me with surprise, but i did not think anything of it. they looked surprised that i was a male. the odds of me being a butchy female were not high becasue I am 6'5, and I had a goatee! lol
there are countless other examples, but I was very devistated when me and amanda broke up. a few days later she started to date some other guy, and had him moved in to her apt in a few months. the next month they put a bid on a house, but to my knowledge it was rejected.
After my talk with amber about her, it all kinda makes scene now. It just seems to me she is gay, and is in complete denial about it, hence why she wanted to buy a house so quick with this new guy, she being desperate to prove to her family she is not gay. During sex, always wanted me to go down on her, and she hardly ever went down on me. and like i said there are countless other examples. But its so clear to me now... blah, thanks for listening to my rant!
Posted Sat Jan 03, 2009 11:50 AM
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Posted Sun Jan 04, 2009 12:05 AM
The thought of her being bisexual has crossed my mind, but my gut is saying no. In any case, I truly wish her the best of luck in life. And saving the best for last, I am enjoying my new found confidence, being single, and having casual sex Life is great! I am happy!
Posted Sun Jan 04, 2009 04:29 AM
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