Personal Journey to Multiple O's
Posted Tue May 17, 2016 06:16 PM
A few years ago, I went on a journey to find my path to multiple orgasms. At the urging of my husband, I decided to take this journey as a solo one. As he pointed out, it was more likely to happen if I learned to do it by myself.
At first, it was frustrating. My body just wouldn't cooperate. I'd spend a long time after my first orgasm trying to make it happen again, but I couldn't get close, and it was difficult to feel pleasure from continued stimulation.
After awhile, I figured out that my body was actually reaching a second orgasm just seconds away, but I just couldn't make my body achieve another orgasm.
Before long, I had that second orgasm one day ... and then a third!
I was pretty ecstatic about it. Of course, I had to try it again, and some days, it didn't work, but other days I enjoyed multiple orgasms.
I think some women also want more orgasms. So I came up with a few tips to hopefully help.
If your body is used to just having a single orgasm, your brain may shut down to arousal after that first orgasm hits, like mine did. Try to train your body to continue to experience arousal and pleasure. Work on continuing the stimulation, using sexy images after that first orgasm.
For many, the clitoris becomes too sensitive to touch after climax, so touch yourself in other sensual areas. Resume touching your orgasmic centers within a couple minutes after orgasm to keep your body from going too far down the resolution phase.
Finding good stimulation is important to reaching multiple peaks as well. I found out that too-powerful vibrators made multiple orgasms impossible. I prefer my fingers for stimulation, that I can continue for as long as I want.
It really helped me to understand that multiple orgasms might not happen all the time. So allow yourself to fail, and that may take the pressure off.
Having orgasms is a physical battle as well as a mental one. Use a good erotic story, fantasy, porn movie, or whatever gets you off to help you continue your arousal after that first orgasm.
I was having problems achieving multiple orgasms because I was tense and expectant. Once I decided I wasn't going to achieve any more orgasms, I relaxed my body in annoyance - and I instantly had an orgasm.
Most importantly, explore your body with curiosity and self-acceptance. For me, touching my nipples was amazing, but also gliding my fingers on the undersides of my breasts is highly sensual. Tracing my inner thighs and running fingers above and through my pubic hairs is very nice.
Multiple orgasms don't happen for everyone, but you can learn a lot about your body by trying to have them. No matter what, just enjoy the ride.
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