How to get the wife to have anal sex
Posted Sun Jun 19, 2016 03:55 AM
Posted Sun Jun 19, 2016 06:19 AM
Posted Sun Jun 19, 2016 09:41 PM
Posted Sun Jun 19, 2016 09:45 PM
Pretty much sums it up. Mine won't ever and I have accepted that...for now
Posted Mon Jun 20, 2016 01:00 AM
But if she hasn't outright rejected the idea, she might be afraid it will hurt, or think that she won't like it. That's kind of where I was, and I'm still building up to it.
You definitely have to start out slow and build up to it. While you are playing with her, lightly brush your finger over and see how she reacts. The first time my husband did that, I was surprised how good it felt. Now he sometimes uses his fingers, either while he goes down on me, or in doggy. I still can't comfortably take him, but we're getting there, and I'm enjoying it more and more.
Be gentle, be patient, and be ok with it if it doesn't work for her.
Posted Mon Jun 20, 2016 07:50 AM
Never did get anything more than a finger and small buttplug in her ass, but she sure took to doing things to my ass. I'll take what I can get.
Posted Mon Jun 20, 2016 10:52 AM
Posted Mon Jun 20, 2016 01:11 PM
You might enjoy reading my blog post, A Primer for Anal Sex.
First of all, of course - if she says "No," that's a no. But if she's shown some anal arousal when fingers or tongues have strayed there, that's a start. If she seems interested or open to the idea, perhaps there's some apprehension or trepidation on her part. She might enjoy reading my anal sex primer with you as an ice-breaker.
Please, feel perfectly free to PM, if you like!