new b/f but he is a virgin
Posted Thu Feb 05, 2009 03:36 PM
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Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 08:24 AM
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Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 02:47 PM
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 02:53 PM
My advice is, if he is not just "another lay" then be with him, build the relationship until he wants to do it. Compliment him. don't be pushy. i hated it when my gf was pushy.
if he is just another lay, then I would move on.
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 02:56 PM
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 06:58 PM
Ok I know you probably didn't mean it this way, Melissalicious....but when I read that I was kinda offended. Her goal of....what? Getting his virginity? Is that a goal? Once again I am not trying to start a fight of any kind but I am a virgin as well and I highly value my virginity and despise any women who think of taking a man's virginity as a goal. I'm really passive and I just want to say AGAIN that I do not want to start anything, just saying that when I read that the first time....it was offensive, to me at least. Sorry :x.
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 07:59 PM
except i'm not in any kind of situation with a girl, but hypothetical if i had a girl interested in me
I would say you just have to be patience, he's probably very intimidated by girls as i am, and you just have to take things a little slower then usual, and show him the ropes.
Posted Sun Feb 08, 2009 04:17 PM
Posted Sun Feb 08, 2009 04:26 PM
fly over here nd i'll luk afta ya!!! :L