i want to crawl in a hole.
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 01:07 AM
7 and a little change. nothing to be embarrassed of.
i have the worst proformance anxiety ever. its happened with every girl ive been with. i cant pop wood to save my life.
like not only will i not be able to pop wood, i dont even get to half mass where i can squeeze for penetration and go from there. SHRINKAGE even.
im so frustrated i dunno wtf to do i get so nervous
its becoming a problem. i'm talking to this girl shes super cute etc and we were fuckin around for hours. i ate her out for probably an hour. and the whole time NOTHING.
it sounds really extreme but i was wondering how to get ahold of some Viagra if i dont have legitimate ED. because i MIGHT AS WELL. because i get so nervous i cant physically pop wood. ????????
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 06:59 AM
I'd say...have a very solid relationship first before you even think about sex.
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Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 01:18 PM
Personally, I think you have the caused nailed down, that it's just performance anxiety. Relax, and sooner or later, things will come together.
I don't know what you masturbate to, but if you fantasize about sex with your girlfriend while stimulating yourself, it will probably help when it actually comes time to do the deed.
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 08:27 PM
going by your name, might want to rule smoking out as being a partial cause... affects people differently. might be affecting your ability when smoking or maybe when u hadnt smoked.
Have you been ED since before you ever smoked? Would a 420 friendly chick (if ur gf isnt) perhaps allow you to be in a state where you are more at ease?
Posted Fri Feb 06, 2009 10:41 PM
at home in my bedroom all alone, watchin porn, i can easily pop a boner. but once i am with a girl, nothing at all. and just like the OP, sometimes i can get shrinkage.
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