How Would You Feel? (for females)
Posted Wed Feb 11, 2009 04:12 PM
Posted Wed Feb 11, 2009 09:04 PM
it would really depend on how secure i was with you...is she just a very insecure person anyway?
im sure there are gonna be people on her here who completely agree with her being justified and others who compelety agree that she overreacted but everyone has different feelings about this kind of stuff.
personally i would say that she overreacted BUT i dont know anything about your relationship or her as a person
Posted Wed Feb 11, 2009 09:52 PM
Posted Thu Feb 12, 2009 04:16 AM
Try reasoning with her. Explain it was a foolish thing to do, that your ex means nothing to you etc and you might be able to win her over. She's probably just feeling a bit hurt at the moment (as I would be too)
Posted Thu Feb 12, 2009 09:43 AM
Posted Thu Feb 12, 2009 06:16 PM
Posted Thu Feb 12, 2009 06:25 PM
How did you handle it? Did you delete them, reassure her you didn't want them, help her nderstand that it was all in the past? Orrr, did you maybe make her feel like she was being silly for being upset about it?
I'd be upset if my BF had kept them on his phone. Having said that though, my BF is very open and honest about stuff like that and has told me of the pictures he has of old girlfriends. It's in the past, we all have one and he's with me now, loves me now, wants to do those naughty things with only me now. I'm secure enough in myself and our relationship that it doesn't worry me. I haven't seen them, they're his. I'm not interested in seeing them, they are pictures captured in moments of his past time.
Posted Thu Feb 12, 2009 07:40 PM
i no i wud be furious nd dat wud b d end of it it reli wud cause if its been a long time since u were wit ur ex, nd ur wit ur current gf a year nd in all honestly in a year im sure u wud hav seen the pics at sum stage!!!
stupid misktake on ur part!!!
u need to explain to her reli wel, make her feel special, tel her how much u luv her, al dat sort of thing and hope it works out for the best!!! if its ment 2 it will work out!!!
good luck, hope it all works out well!!!
Posted Thu Feb 12, 2009 08:26 PM
Anyway, in relation to the post, I think she is justified in being so angry. It was quite stupid to leave the pictures on your phone, however I don't think she should break up with you over it. That is too far.
Posted Thu Feb 12, 2009 09:09 PM
Posted Thu Feb 12, 2009 09:13 PM
That's a major lack of judgement, I would wonder what would happen next...
Posted Thu Feb 12, 2009 10:40 PM
Posted Fri Feb 13, 2009 08:52 PM
i do try and write properly but sometimes i forget. i'll try remember from now on because i say it is really annoying. i text way too much!!! and normally when im on this im very tired as wel!!!
Posted Sat Feb 14, 2009 01:53 AM
Posted Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:26 PM
im trying my best i really am, i should be able to do it considering i type up projects for college but for some reason on most forums i seem to write in text talk!!!
Posted Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:32 PM
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Posted Wed Feb 18, 2009 05:48 PM