Relationship problems... need a quick answer
Posted Tue Feb 17, 2009 01:21 PM
i really want this to work and i think some problem is that she doesnt want me around her parents right now and i havent seen then im months. i know her parents arent impressed with me. and i really want to apologize. i was thinking about swinging by there today and talking to them. i think if i do this, it will help in some sense in our relationship. should i do it or not?
Posted Tue Feb 17, 2009 01:33 PM
I have never dated a girl that would stop seeing me because her parents didn’t like me. I believe I have dated a couple that dated me because her parents didn’t or wouldn’t like me.
Your relationship with your girlfriend’s parents is not the problem, so talking to them is not going to fix it.
Your problem is your relationship with your girlfriend. If you really do not know what that problem is, you need to speak with her and find out.
Posted Tue Feb 17, 2009 04:11 PM
Posted Tue Feb 17, 2009 04:25 PM
Posted Tue Feb 17, 2009 06:01 PM
i arrived back to my house one night to find my EX boyfriend sitting with my parents, he had been there for a few hours, i was so annoyed i litterally just kicked him out of the house, he had no right to be there and the fact that he was made me not want to speak to him again, but to him he taught it might help us get back together!!!!!!!!!! men!!!
Posted Wed Feb 18, 2009 11:47 AM
Posted Wed Feb 18, 2009 04:35 PM
during this time, i have felt really guilty about lying to my rents, and worried because i'm thinking constantly about how to tell them about us again...and i've found that even when i try not to, i do get distant from my bf because of it.
just show ur gf u love her and that u want to support her and confront her rents to clear things up. hopefully she'll feel more at ease and realise ur worth the hassle!
Posted Thu Feb 19, 2009 05:11 AM
Posted Mon Feb 23, 2009 04:49 PM
sorry 2let u no dat my parents dont lyk u!!! :L:L:L
its not even funny how much of a lie dat is, i tink dey lyk u more den me sum times!!!
"oh if i knew u were cuming up i wud hav cookd both u dinner"