question about marriage
Posted Mon Mar 16, 2009 05:46 PM
Posted Mon Mar 16, 2009 06:00 PM
Posted Mon Mar 16, 2009 06:17 PM
One piece of advice from a woman... do not take marriage for granted, it may not last, in fact chances are that it won't; make your own life plan, deserve your dreams, and don't center your happiness on a husband or a picket fence.
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 12:02 AM
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 12:34 AM
We don't fuck around with others or anything like that but we are looking to experiment with another girl.
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 06:07 AM
It does sound a bit silly to be waiting for 10 years to pass before getting married (is it get married after 10 years or get engaged after 10 years?) though, almost like some weird childhood obsession that he is embarrassed to let go of.
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 02:12 PM
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 05:13 PM
I personally don't really care essentially if I marry or not, it'd be nice, don't get me wrong, but if the guy I'm with doesn't want to have that piece of paper, then that's fine (just as long as he still gives me a ring lol). But I would like to know in about 3/4 years if the relationship is "right" and that we're starting to plan for kids as I'd like to have kids around 30 (which is 5 years away).
Posted Wed Mar 18, 2009 07:22 PM
Posted Thu Mar 26, 2009 09:22 PM
I never understand that.
Posted Thu Mar 26, 2009 11:02 PM
I absolutely would not want to live like that. I enjoy my lover for a few days in a week when he is here, and then I am able to have some spare time alone. I just love my independence, space, freedom and flexibility of being alone. i do not like to feel the pressure in life. so, i can really enjoy my life, and do things i really want to do.
Posted Thu Mar 26, 2009 11:17 PM
This is the mentality I want to never ever have myself.
If it is not the one and only, I'd rather never do it.
I odn't see life as a business plan with deadlines.
Posted Fri Mar 27, 2009 03:33 AM
I don't get your boyfriends 10 year thing, but men are just strange 99% of the time