i need some ppls advice
Posted Mon Mar 16, 2009 09:44 PM
Posted Mon Mar 16, 2009 09:54 PM
Older women are also more direct about things, so if you are that interested, might want to get her out on a date to see her reaction. She'll let you know soon enough.
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 01:50 AM
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 03:44 AM
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 07:46 AM
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 07:58 AM
I guess the only thing you can do is ask her out for a drink.... or actually that would be a logistical nightmare for her to arrange babysitters.... u could ask her if her and the kids would like to go to the beach or for a picnic in the park???
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 08:26 AM
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 08:30 AM
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 08:58 AM
I assure you that that is not a problem if you decide to put it aside. Decide quickly if you want to stay friends with this woman or if you want to pursue her. If you decide to get involved, ask her out on a date soon. I can tell you that she may dismiss you quickly at first; so be prepared for that and have some arguments to explain why you want to have a relationship with her; and if you really like her that much, don't get discouraged at the first sign of rejection... insist.
Her arguments are going to be based on the age gap like "What's going to happen 10 years down the road?"... she'll be in her 40's while you'll be in your 30's; then, the issue of children... she's got 3 already, and eventually, you may want to have children of your own and she might be too old for childbirth; she's also settled already whereas you, might feel that you missed out down the road; and what about going out, it's not like she'll be able to go to bars or clubs with you, especially with the children.
Think about all this before you proceed, and if you do, show maturity. The last thing an older woman with children wants is to have another child around. Also think about other possibilities also... friendship with benefits, or a loose relationship, but that's a major call for maturity. On the lighter side, I can tell you that many guys who decide to go for older women seem to enjoy the sex part a lot.
So, think, decide, then act...
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 09:03 AM
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 09:07 AM
Posted Tue Mar 17, 2009 09:11 AM