Posted Wed Apr 01, 2009 01:39 PM
Posted Thu Apr 02, 2009 08:53 AM
A couple things that worked for me are to stop the activity when you get close to orgasm. Rest a bit then continue. Change positions once in a while. You can also try one of the desensing creams (just a tiny bit rubbed into touy cock-head). Some guys masturbate a while before having actual sex, but I think that is silly - why not just have sex more than once?
Posted Sat Apr 04, 2009 07:11 PM
Posted Sat Apr 04, 2009 11:37 PM
Posted Sun Apr 05, 2009 07:42 PM
You can't start doing that when you feel it coming though, that's too late. You have to do it early on. When you get good with it eventually you're not really thinking about other stuff, you just learn to switch off. I can go for as long as i want if I switch off from the beginning. However when I want to finish it takes me a while cause from the point when I say ON, it's as if I just started so it takes me a while to get there.
I'd like to try the PC muscle thing but I don't have the dedication, and when you try to hold it in and fail it sucks cause it ruins the orgasm. At least for me...
Posted Mon Apr 06, 2009 10:11 AM
-regarding the dedication that pc muscle control requires: it's not like you need to spend hours a day. make it a habit that whenever you're bored out of your mind (in a meeting, during class) to flex it. and when you're having sex or masturbating, try to hold off from cumming just once...it's a skill that will last you a lifetime, and will have health benefits beyond the sexual. It also allows you to not have to distract your attention from your immediate experience, but you can stay engaged. And when you want to finish, you wont necessarily have start from the beginning. you can be riding a wave, so to speak.
plus, a stronger pc muscle means better, stronger, orgasms. when you get good at it, you can learn to ejaculate once, just a bit, and then again, a bit more, etc., which will drive your partner crazy (my experience).
if there's anything worth a bit of practice, this is it.
Posted Mon Apr 06, 2009 02:09 PM
Posted Mon Apr 06, 2009 02:24 PM
Worse case scenario is that you start some foreplay, get her worked up with some oral till she begs for your cock, 10 minutes later you get off, head back down for some oral/finger action till you're guy is ready again, and repeat. That should be enough to satisfy.
As far as working the PC muscles...I just do mine for a half an hour watching a show or reading forums. Do it with enough regularity and it just becomes a habit you forget you're even doing.
Posted Sun Apr 26, 2009 12:21 PM