can i let this carry on?
Posted Wed Apr 15, 2009 08:23 AM
i am so stuck please any advise would be loved? xx
Posted Wed Apr 15, 2009 08:33 AM
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Posted Fri Apr 17, 2009 11:56 PM
After 3 years, you would think you'd have the balls to be a real man and be open and honest with your partner eh? The fact you can't even get yourself to communicate "how fed up" you are or to work out things and instead are at the starting stages of emotionally cheating on her and investing heavy time into this other girl, shows how decayed your relationship is.
Talk to her about things, and remember kids..
If it doesn't feel right and you hide it from your S.O., you know theres something wrong, and imagine if it was YOUR gf or bf getting close to another person of a different gender during tough times.. Doesn't feel good, DOES IT?
Tell her everything you told us and work through your problems instead of "getting pissed" and turning your eyes away from her and a potential future ( 3years isn't something to take lightly ) and go from there. Personally, if I even accidently kissed another girl, I'd be so full of guilt and shame that within minutes or hours I'd tell mah girl. It's happened before and we worked through it..
The little shit's that happen in a relationship may break it or bind you two together. If it was really an accidental kiss, it won't break you. If it does, your with the wrong person.
That's my opinion. Trust, Open'ness, Honesty, Strength. If your relationship is the right one, it WILL overcome anything. Don't be afraid to be a man and say things how they are.
Posted Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:32 PM
You've already pushed past the friendship boundary with the kiss, and while you say it won't happen again you can't be sure about that. That's a dangerous position to be in.
Would you throw away all those years with your current GF for a go with sara?
Posted Sat Apr 18, 2009 04:20 PM