Posted Wed Apr 15, 2009 12:41 PM
when i first broke it off i knew that would be only way for her to realize things and that i hoped she would change and we could work it out. of course i was down and missed her like crazy. but after a little while i felt better and like i was ready to just move on. Now the last few days shes been callin alot and we hung out a couple time (no kissing or anything though,just talked and chilled) and she says how upset shes been and she doesnt wanna loose me and that she'll change her ways.
I just dont know what to do she seems so sincere but still. im really stuck. sometimes i think just go and move on she wont change. then i think maybe she will change and im pushing away something good. like i said we start communicating more again and even hung out. I went over her house the last two nights, but i left and went home. i normally slept there everynight. she gets upset bc of course things are wierd and i wont even kiss her and stuff. i want to so bad but i know that not a good idea.
Posted Wed Apr 15, 2009 01:06 PM
and you've already 'moved on', you just need to find someone who wants to be with you and who doesnt lie or cheat in any way (i consider her telling her ex that she misses him and she loves him cheating).
good luck with your choice.
Posted Wed Apr 15, 2009 01:11 PM
If you hadn't told her how much her behaviour hurts you, or if she had really tried to change *before* you broke up, I'd say go back.
But now... It is up to you and your gut feeling.
Posted Wed Apr 15, 2009 01:20 PM
My advice is to avoid temptation and stay away from her as much as you can.
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