Do girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted Sat Apr 25, 2009 09:21 PM
What do you say girls? I want an honest answer: How important is sex to you and HOW OFTEN do you ideally want sex?
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Posted Sat Apr 25, 2009 09:59 PM
For some reason even though they like it just as much they aren't horny as often, at least in my experience. It doesn't make sense to me either but then I'm not a girl lol. My guess is that it has to do with a combination of the whole "slut" stigma and the fact that girls are just wired differently... it seems like they need to be worked up to it a little through foreplay before they really want it as bad as guys pretty much always do... but this is probably a question best answered by a girl.
Posted Sat Apr 25, 2009 10:03 PM
It depends, sometimes we will do it 3 days in a row and sometimes it will be a week before we do it again. Some woman are just not as sexual as others. I have heard of woman that want sex all of the time and once with their spouse for a while they never want it!
Posted Sat Apr 25, 2009 10:35 PM
you're truly an exception, a good one
Posted Sun Apr 26, 2009 11:17 AM
Regarding your question, you may be getting a rather skewed response here... this is a sex forum and obviously most of the women here enjoy sex and have it more often than average.
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Posted Mon Apr 27, 2009 01:08 AM
most women here are GOING to be into sex because it is a sex FORUM, therefore if a girl wasnt into sex, she wouldnt be a member here, posting for all to see.
sure teenage girls want it, but as time goes on, it seems like a good portion dry up around 25 and it only goes downhill from there.
at least, that has been everything i have witnessed, learned, and talked about with the "guys" that range from my age to grandpa's.
Posted Mon Apr 27, 2009 01:23 AM
i beg to differ.......if i try to get frisky with a headache, it only gets a thousand times worse.
Posted Mon Apr 27, 2009 02:37 AM
Women also have an organ whose SOLE purpose is sexual pleasure (the clitoris), and the ability to have multiple orgasms. Good sex is WONDERFUL for women, and it's something they love to do. But they love to do it with a man who is making them feel a particular way.
Women bear much more risk in sex than men do. Aside from disease (which is a risk for men too), women must also worry about reputation and impregnation in a way that men do not. And, from primitive times, women are wired to select the BEST mates, whereas men are merely wired to select the MOST mates. Biologically, women must consider consequences that men can just walk away from. In primitive times, if a woman was impregnated by a man who was not a good mate, she spent months carrying and years raising his child. If a man impregnated a woman who was not a good mate, he'd just impregnate someone else the next day. Women's emotions developed to help them choose the best mates. Subconsciously, all of this plays into sex drive and the decision whether to act on it.
But here's the key -- this is all emotional stuff, not logical stuff. This wiring never shuts off, regardless of the status of your relationship. She doesn't choose a mate once, but rather chooses him every time she mates with him. She doesn't choose to do it, or think about it, and probably doesn't even realize it. All she knows is how she feels, and she's always aware of how you make her feel. If you are behaving like a man she wants to mate with, she will feel turned on and will want to have sex with you.
Passion fades with time at least partially because we get lazy about demonstrating that we're the best mate. Enticing her to have sex doesn't begin when you get into bed at night, it begins when you wake up in the morning and it lasts all day long. (This does NOT mean you should spend all day begging for sex!) It's at least as much about what kind of a man you are outside the bedroom as it is about how you approach her at the time you want sex. If you've shown that you're the best mate available to her, made her feel desirable and sexy, and created some delicious sexual tension, she will happily give you all the sex you want! This is not a situation in which you are powerless. You have the ability to seduce your wife or girlfriend!
She has a sex drive of her own, but it doesn't exist in a vacuum. She will want sex as often as you can make her want you!
(There's a lot more to this, and I've glossed over massive, massive amounts of information, but I'm writing a forum post here, not a book.)