Posted Sun Apr 26, 2009 08:51 PM
I find it kinda hard to keep a conversation with her. It's really hard to explain I suppose.. But sometimes the conversations are rather boring. We are both kid at hearts, but I still find it hard to find things to talk about....
I don't really know what exactly I'm asking for here... lol.. but if anyone has any suggestions I would appreciate it.
Posted Sun Apr 26, 2009 09:26 PM
Posted Sun Apr 26, 2009 09:34 PM
If it is only recently perhaps give it some time?
Some people keep thier barriers up for a while I guess...
Posted Sun Apr 26, 2009 10:08 PM
Posted Sun Apr 26, 2009 11:12 PM
I can't really give an example. It's hard to explain. The conversations just seem.. blank sometimes. We do have a lot of fun still.. but when it gets quiet I feel kinda awkward.
Posted Mon Apr 27, 2009 12:08 AM
Knowing you have things in common I am sure there are those subjects to talk about.
Posted Mon Apr 27, 2009 12:55 AM
It's just when it's like face to face on a date.. or that kinda thing. Hehe.
Posted Mon Apr 27, 2009 01:04 AM
if not, then dont worry about it. talking too much beats the piss out of talking too little.
Posted Sun May 10, 2009 05:18 PM
Posted Sun May 10, 2009 07:26 PM
Posted Sun May 10, 2009 10:00 PM
Posted Mon May 11, 2009 06:11 AM
I am confused.
When you say she is silent and can't make conversation, you mean in general? Whatever the subject is? Why would anyone worry being overheard talking about the weather?
Are you making too many personal questions?
Do you talk more about your hobbies and interests or the place you are meeting at and doing general conversation?
Or you talk more about personal things?
I know I'd clam up and shut my mouth when asked personal questions I don't feel like answering and forget about conversation altogether.
Posted Mon May 11, 2009 09:02 AM
Posted Mon May 11, 2009 10:07 AM
Posted Wed May 13, 2009 02:51 PM
If I find that conversation is having too much silence, I'll usually talk about her favorite subject. Every woman's favorite subject is herself. I might tease her like this, "I bet when you were growing up, you loved to have your picture taken."
She'll ask me why I said that. I'll then just talk about how cute she is. Or sometimes I'll throw a weird fact out there and see if it gets her to laugh or it might start an interesting conversation.
I'll start out by saying something like, "Have you ever thought why........
Even talking about a weird news story that you seen is better than silence when you two haven't had sex yet. She's still trying to figure you out. Teasing a girl is also very important.