Posted Tue May 12, 2009 06:39 PM
Well since then we have had sex a few more times. It hurts when he first puts it in but after a few seconds it starts to feel amazing. He has made me orgasm a quite a few times. But there is one REALLY big problem...he lasts for a REALLY long time...and I'm not used to guys lasting long at all lol. So because he lasts so long and he is so big it starts hurting me after a little bit, like I get really sore. I end up having to make him stop because I am hurting so bad. And then I will try and give him head but it will take too long and I will get tired and we will try having sex again but I can't cuz it hurts, and this will go on for like 2 hours before we finally give up.
When we are done I am more than satisfied, but I know he's not because he never came. I feel really bad because I want him to cum, I don't like leaving him hanging lol. But I end up being sore, and having a hard time even sitting down, for the next couple days.
So what should I do? I don't want to leave him unsatisfied again. But I have never had a guy last longer than...20 minutes with me lol.
And he just asked me to be his girlfriend last night, so I know that there is going to be a lot more sex with him now.
Posted Tue May 12, 2009 07:00 PM
I usually have the same problem of lasting a really long time. I've trained my mind to make myself last as long as I want, but sometimes I have to fuck a girl extremely fast for a very long time to start to feel that I'm going to cum. I pretty much have to do that for as long and as fast as I could possibly go and then I'll finally cum. I know that if I wasn't in good shape I wouldn't be able to fuck like that.
And I could only cum from a blowjob if the girl is very good at it and she would have to do it for a very long time.
You need to use lots of KY jelly and have him go as fast and long as he could possibly fuck until he cums, no making love, just hard fucking.
Posted Tue May 12, 2009 07:27 PM
My 2 cents.
PS. didnt mean to objectify you with the 'warm holes' comment
just trying to get my message across
Posted Tue May 12, 2009 07:28 PM
The best thing long term for you both is for him to address the reasons for taking so long to get off. 2 hours+ is just unrealistic for anyone to have sex every day, and it has to be severely affecting the quality of his relationships. Time to have a serious talk with your guy.
Posted Tue May 12, 2009 07:41 PM
another time with a friend in a trip it also lasted quite long, but i'd say one hour only
since then I consider long when it takes 30 minutes
Posted Tue May 12, 2009 11:56 PM
Posted Wed May 13, 2009 04:17 PM