Question for the men: 1 in 3
Posted Thu May 14, 2009 10:42 PM
How many men on SF believe this statistic is true? How many men here would say they're part of the 33% who wish their partners were better in bed?
Posted Thu May 14, 2009 11:27 PM
Honestly, I think if they aren't very good, I wonder what I can do better. Most people want to be good in bed.
Also, when it's been awhile since I've had some, it's just nice to get some. It's not easy for me to date...
Posted Thu May 14, 2009 11:52 PM
The type of men who actually answered a poll from cosmo might not be overly concerned with sex with a woman.
Posted Fri May 15, 2009 12:41 AM
Posted Fri May 15, 2009 04:24 AM
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Posted Fri May 15, 2009 05:23 AM
Even if their most wished for fantasy is expertly performed by their dream partner, they may not still be happy. There is a degree of security missing in a fling. I'd almost bet if the same poll was conducted with women, there would be a similar answer.
Posted Fri May 15, 2009 07:25 AM
However that was the only one...
Posted Fri May 15, 2009 03:19 PM
Posted Fri May 15, 2009 03:35 PM
Gregorio makes a good point that a survey answered by women might yield similar results. I guess I could count myself in that 33% of women just because I wish my SO and I had sex more often. When we do have sex, it's great, which makes me want more.
Posted Fri May 15, 2009 04:42 PM
Posted Fri May 15, 2009 04:57 PM
I'd bet dollars to donuts that most men polled there would be infinitely more happy just to get more blowjobs.
Posted Fri May 15, 2009 05:30 PM
what does it mean to wish your partner would be better?
every partner i have ever been with has been continuously learning and getting better--just as i have been. i want to be with a partner who likes to try new things and who has room to grow and learn. and i will always do the same.
at the same time i always want to be happy with my partner for what we do have together.
Posted Sat May 16, 2009 02:51 AM
i am completely satisfied, however. and i'm positive he is too.
Posted Sat May 16, 2009 08:57 AM
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Posted Sat May 16, 2009 04:02 PM
Never Knows Best said: