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Posted Mon May 25, 2009 03:58 AM
You could also put an ad out and find a couple for some same room sex or something. That might light a little fire.
If you're really looking for risky, go have sex on a public bus or a subway train or something. Maybe a park bench in the middle of the day. You could always go to somewhere like Hedonism II in Jamaica for a vacation as well. Open sex is known to happen on the nude side of the resort and is tolerated. You may have a great time doing that.
If none of that stuff does it for you, I don't know, talk to each other about it and figure out what fantasies you both have or things that you both want to do. At that point if you're still left with nothing and it's really a problem, consider seeing a sex therapist or relationship counselor or something as an alternative help.
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 04:39 AM
Here are some hot things that we enjoy. Watch sex DVD'S together. We like watching all sex. Most porn plots are corny so we like just watching sex. We especially like watching group sex and fantasizing that we are part of the group. DW likes tos see multiple dicks, men masturbating and cum shots. Studios that have good DVD'S are Private, Wicked, Adam and Eve and Vivid. We learn new techniques by watching.
We enjoy mutual masturbation while watching. I love to watch a realistic go in and out of her pussy. Usually our masturbation is just forplay, but occasionally I will cum on her boobs. She rubs the cum all over and talks dirty about hot cum.
Another is for her to use a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms.
I love to go down on her until she cums and then share her juices with deep kisses. Also she loves a mouthful of cum followed by deep kisses sharing the cum with me. She love to lick the cum off of my dick after I cum inside her.
Dirty talk is hot!
We also enjoy role reversal using a strap on. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on. She either gives me a handjob or blowjob while she fucks me.
We have an extensive toy collection that we use all sorts of ways.
Hope this gives you some ideas. Have fun fucking!!!
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 09:02 AM
I loved it when me and my partner started to incorporate toys into our bedroom sessions. She bought home some massage oil from the sex shop and mentioned she had bought something else but didn't want to say what. She was a bit embarrassed but eventually admitted she had also bought a vibe (i was away lots around that time) i told her i would love to watch her using it which was a huge turn on for both of us.
She would use it on herself and i would watch or i would take control of it and change tempo, its speed setting etc and tease her and make her really want it. This big plus side is being able to go down on her at the same time which had led to some of her bigger O's.
Other ideas are dress ups, Maid outfit that sort of thing. Any thing that includes skirts and no panties works well in my books.
Go out to dinner with a skirt/dress on and tell him you arn't wearing panties and that you really want him. Tease him for the night and when you get home (or maybe back to the car) let all the built up passion explode.
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 03:59 PM
what HAVE you already done? if we knew that, we might be able to offer some advice...