Ladies how do you flirt and win a guys attention.
Posted Sun May 24, 2009 07:50 PM
Posted Sun May 24, 2009 09:07 PM
I'm not an flirter myself, I never use physical cues or one liners to attract anyone. I'm not interested in men who just go for the physical anyways; but if by chance someone gets interested in me, and if I find him attractive in some way (not necessarily physical either), I may start by asking something about his place of origin and try to relate to that place (I've travelled quite a bit, so chances are that I'll know something about almost any place). If there's still interest, I may talk about things that he may like (food, wine, beer, sports, whatever). If he still shows interest, I may try some mind teasing. I just try to keep the conversation going for as long as I can... it's quite an endurance endeavor, and if he's an interesting person and if he's interested, then I may decide to flirt more openly. In my opinion, there's no point in flirting with someone who's not interested, but that's just me.
Now, you have to understand that I'm a mature person, and to me flirting is not a game, but a serious intent, and I don't go around doing it with every man I meet. Still, I may flirt when doing business... I don't apologize for it and somehow it's clear that it's just to add some social graces to the dealings, and to make things a little more pleasant. Otherwise, I behave quite normally under all circumstances, I look reserved and I never look eager to get anything or anyone. Everything has to come smoothly and fall into place without pressure.
Sometimes I think I could hold a conversation with a rock if I have to, not that I would though... I doubt this was the type of answer you were looking for, but my two cents anyway...
Posted Sun May 24, 2009 09:14 PM
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 12:23 AM
If I am only looking for sex, then I tend to be more aggressive in general. I do think that girls are lucky in that we don't have to work hard to get laid, when we need it. So, being a little aggressive goes a long way
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 01:32 AM
Olive: I like what you say about things coming smoothly without pressure
Meow: I like that you say its a turn off if I a guy gets aggressive while you're flirting.
thanks again, im still open for more, feel free.
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 08:08 AM
BTW, I took the test and my brain turned out to be completely sexless.