I cant only get off during intercourse.
Posted Mon May 25, 2009 09:54 AM
I CAN ONLY GET OFF DURING INTERCOURSE
Not Cant only.
I have a problem, I've never been able to cum in any other way, except actual intercourse. No matter how good it feels getting a BJ, or HJ, I can never climax. I'm worried that my g/f will think she isn't doing something right, I've explained to her, I've never been able to with anyone, but I'm not so sure she believes it.
I've made her cum with fingering, going down on her, and just intercourse alone, with no clit stimulation.
I feel bad that I can't do it for her unless I'm actually inside her, I'm sure there is a way to fix myself. Any advice?
Posted Sun May 31, 2009 02:55 AM
Posted Wed Jun 03, 2009 05:48 AM
I usually have to be having sex for a good 2 hours before I can cum. My dick is kinda big, and seems to be a little "feeling-less".
It could be a control thing, since I've only gotten off about 3 times with her on top of me instead of me on top of her.
Posted Wed Jun 03, 2009 10:51 AM
Posted Wed Jun 03, 2009 02:49 PM
Posted Wed Jun 03, 2009 03:26 PM
Have you tried fantasy and all the other fun stuff to see if it makes a difference.
You should also realize that a lot of people lie to them selves about what really turns them on if it is not what the general masses class as normal
So there might be something that really turns you on and you are not sure as to weather it should or not so you don't perform because you think its taboo
Just a thought
Posted Thu Jun 04, 2009 05:18 AM
Have you had a really good physical lately? That is a blood profile, EKG, blood pressure check, urine analysis etc? (Extremely important.... you may have an ongoing issue to be attended to and do not realize it) You need to discuss this problem with a qualified physician who has your best interest in mind. Today's modern physicians are taught that your sex life is a big part of your general health. Discuss your masturbation issues also.