Ladies, how much of a big deal is premature ejaculation?
Posted Sun May 31, 2009 06:39 PM
Posted Sun May 31, 2009 06:47 PM
i wouldnt end a relaionship over it nor would i cheat because of it.
Posted Sun May 31, 2009 07:50 PM
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 12:43 AM
if i didn't get off by the time he did then i would just fuck him til i came too...
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 08:32 AM
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 11:56 AM
Also, does he do things to make sure she's satisfied?
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 01:39 PM
That's the main thing. If he makes sure she is satisfied by other means (toys, oral, or manual) then it's not as big a deal. MOST guys will cum faster than their partner.
That only works up to a point. Some women cannot cum from PIV sex - they need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, which is darned hard to do during the sex act with just the penis alone. Even if she can get there from PIV sex, many women need a lot longer than most guys can last.
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 01:48 PM
With my current girlfriend I still sometimes come quickly, and sometimes she is close and I will just lift her off me (if I don't have a condom on) so I don't come inside her. That is really all that upsets here because she is so close.. I attribute most of the current issues to the same thing, i am simply so horny that when I finally do get sex.. I don't even care about her wants <- I know that seems unfair.. But at times there can be a lot of sexual frustrations because shes never interested in sex ( likely due to the birth control).
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 03:50 PM
There are many ways both of you can work on to improve it. If he is unwilling to work on it then I would say there may be reason to breakup
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 04:21 PM
As stated in the OP, we're talking about him, not her.
Also, guys can develop the ability to wait to cum to make sure their partner is satsified, this one I know about.
Posted Tue Jun 02, 2009 08:36 AM
Posted Wed Jun 03, 2009 04:05 PM
Posted Thu Jun 04, 2009 06:43 AM
Posted Fri Jun 05, 2009 05:09 PM
Posted Fri Jun 05, 2009 07:09 PM
It may not sounds fair as girls/woman usually cums later than men. Let the ladies finish first and husband ejaculate later - no chance of cheating.
Posted Wed Sep 05, 2012 05:47 AM
Posted Wed Sep 05, 2012 05:10 PM
But sex without penetration isn't really interesting for me. We can do oral, fingering, etc, but at some point I wanna have his penis in my vagina, and I want it to last. It doesn't need to last for hours, but I wanna have the opportunity to enjoy the sensation of having it inside me, different strokes, the movement... and dildos, I never use them. I need the warmth, the man not just the penis. I don't like dildos, nor vibrators.
A guy with PE can do other things, surely, to make a woman orgasm, but there is nothing as good as a penis inside you, as far as I am concerned.
If he couldn't give me that, most of our sex would have to be 3somes with another man.
Fortunately, I've never been in the situation.
I'm just saying how I feel and I apologize if it hurts anyone's feelings.
Posted Thu Sep 06, 2012 07:00 PM