Can't blow ...
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 07:52 AM
I haven't ever been in a physical relationship where I have had sex before, I am 18 years old and this is the first girl I have been with. Now, when it comes to sex, she get's off, I know she's happy ... her screaming tells me ... and it's genuine.
Even though I go at it for a good 40 minutes, this is the second time we have had sex and yet ... i can't blow. I try really hard but I can't.
in fact, on saturday night, she used the excuse to go to the toilet instead of letting me finish off after a good 40 minutes.
So. How do I blow sooner? I think I am used to jacking off in a certain style, which is right backwards hand. I get my foreskin involved in the method, whereas, when I do it with her, it's all new sensations.
We aren't drinking either nor am I gay, nor do I have any tendencies.
Post away. Dan.
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 09:03 AM
Posted Mon Jun 01, 2009 09:13 AM
sounds bad but i really try to concentrate on anything in my mind that will make me cum. I have to know that the girl is truly enjoying it before i can cum also, good for her i guess haha...
As a funny ass dude told me:
Sex is like playing Spades...if you dont have a good partner, you better have a good hand
Posted Fri Jun 05, 2009 02:05 AM
so you have to change the workouts and the weight to get results
same way with sex. if you're doing the same or relatively the same positions, change it up, like you on top, then from behind, then standing, and even her on top, etc.
also have her suck on you between positions some times and do the same for her. just to re-stimulate and get you closer to an orgasm.
try some things out and I'm sure you'll figure something out.
Posted Fri Jun 05, 2009 06:24 PM
I found that I needed a bit of tease and suspense.
Rather than her going straight for my dick with the intention of making me come, we worked out that if she were to start gently, say kissing passionately for a while with her hand brushing my dick slightly every now and then through my trousers, rubbing herself against my crotch.
So rather than her grabbing my dick and gripping it hard and trying her best to make me come, subtle touching to build tension, expectation is a great way to start things off.
Posted Fri Jun 05, 2009 09:20 PM
Posted Fri Jun 05, 2009 09:33 PM
Usually I end up getting close after a long awhile (talking well over an hour and a half of pure fucking) but never anything past that. If I want to cum, I end up having to pull out and finish myself off, because I've never been able to cum from a female giving me head or jerking me off either.
I've tried pretty much everything too. Including hours of foreplay, before that snuggling and kissing, being incredibly aroused before hand, even masturbating to the point i'm about to cum, going over to their place and then fucking them, but still can't just get over that last step. I'm 20 btw, and starting to think I'm broken lol.
Hope shit works out for you bro.