Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 06:01 AM
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 10:10 AM
Now this is a specific story, so dont take it as fact. But if you are having similiar problems. fighting. Does he accuse you of cheating or any wrong doing? If so i would be suspicious. Subconsciously if someone isnt happy with the person theyre with, they will try to make up reasons to leave them without having to man-up and tell them that it just isnt working anymore.
Him magically not caring that you talk to guys now could mean that he is starting to trust you. Or possibly that he doesnt want to be with you anymore so he just doesnt care if you leave him for another guy.
Sorry for so many possibilities. I am a guy and know how things can change sometimes. Im not a jealous person, more protective than jealous. I dont like my girlfriend/SO hanging out with a lot of guys that i havent met, just for the fact that if they tried something, she wouldnt be able to stop anything. But she has many many guy friends that she hangs out with, and im cool with a lot of them. Jealousy is never a way to have a relationship. All it does is fill your heads with doubts and suspicions. The way i think of it. If im with someone and they cheat, it always comes out. I dont believe in second chances, and follow the theory "once a cheater, always a cheater"
Hope i was helpful.
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 11:37 AM
My guess is this relationship needs help, he's not satisfied, he's looking elsewhere to find it what he's looking for, and he's hoping you do too.
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 12:32 PM
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 05:57 PM
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 06:23 PM
A relationship is built on trust, jealousy and controlling, while seem helpful at the time, will always end up destroying it.
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 11:44 AM
It wouldnt have been such a big deal the first time if it had stayed with online only. I cyber with people all the time, most of the time my girl is sitting right next to me. But we have an understanding. but i would never supply my phone number or personal information to any person unless we were planning on doing something. The few times i have it turned into some sort of group sex.
If i were in your position, i wouldnt have stayed after the first time. If you werent on some sort of break and he was talking to someone else. the trust for me would be gone, along with the relationship.
Posted Fri Jun 12, 2009 04:20 PM
only you can answer your questions, and the fact that you feel like it's a bad idea means you already did!
Posted Fri Jun 12, 2009 04:50 PM
And this isnt just him looking at another woman walking down the street. He wants to talk to other women and get to know them.