my little situation
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 09:33 AM
as a guy i do masterbateto porn alot but since she moved in icut down alot and we have sex liketwice a day almost everyday if not evert other day. well anyway she thinks it her fault b/c she doesnt think she attractive but believe hse is veryattractive and sexy i tell her its not herfaulti just have alot on my mind or i cum alot bc of sex so frequently
does this sound like im making that up as excuses or f ur a fenale would u understand and not freak out?
and wat can i do or sayto make her belive me
that she is stunning and beautiful hot and sexy?
and also isthis normal for a guy? wat can be done to npt havethish problem.. cuz its kinda embarrassing ya know
thanks in advanced
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 01:04 PM
You tell her you have a lot on your mind. That could very well be the cause if you are infact telling the truth. Anxiety, depression, and various psychological disorders can effect your sex drive. You seem to have sex a lot, so if it was one of these, it seems to only be very minor.
Women are very self conscious. You seem to have a very giving woman who likes to please you. She just puts it all on herself when for whatever reason she is unable to do so. It sucks i know. All you can do is reassure her she is beautiful, and that she more than pleases you and its not her fault. Hopefully she will realize that you appreciate everything she does.
As far as something that will help your problem. Go to google and search for "natural aphrodisiacs". many of them can be purchased completely legally without a prescription from a local market. They may help your problem. If it becomes too much of a problem, you can always see a doctor about viagra or other similiar types of medication. But before taking anything, if you take any other medication, make sure to check with your doctor if it is alright, or if he has any other suggestions. The natural remedies could possibly interact with any medication you may be taking now.
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 04:47 PM
she didnt tell me about..my mothets health...alot of stuff
and sorry for tyos and poor writing imon my cell
and thanks again
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2009 06:29 PM
As for making her feel sexy. Girls are told they are sexy and beautiful all the time, what she needs to hear is EXACTLY what you find sexy about her, describe it to her and be specific. Add details about how she makes you feel, read up some poetry if you need help doing that.
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 11:39 AM
But if its a problem, i would suggest you ask a doctor about it. If it doesnt effect you too often. Just tell your gf that you think its the pain killers and stress. Cause it sounds like it is. The fact that she can still get you hard a lot of the time should be pretty pleasing to her. the hottest woman couldnt have gotten me going when i was on those.
Posted Fri Jun 12, 2009 08:41 AM