Girlfriend planning on cheating?
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 08:13 AM
Guy:i thought for like an hour about taking that next step if you know what i mean
GF:you would never have sexx with me
Guy: I said so but that doesnt mean i wouldnt with you if i was really feeling it
GF: welll we will seee if that is true or no. I am always up for sex
Guy: If you make me really feel it and want to have sex with you, then it might happen
GF: You would lose it to me even if we werent dating?
GF: illl get you in the moood on Monday
GF:its the most amazing sensation you will ever have
Guy:are you trying to get me feeling it?
GF:not right now but on monday oh i will
They then get into a discussion about what turns him on... and then comes back to this.
Guy:im gunna have to pay you back to for never giving you anything when we went out last year
Guy:like if you asked me to do anything for/to you id do it to pay you pack
GF:Have you ever fingered or eaten out a girl
Guy: No, but just cause i haven't doesnt mean i wouldn't
GF: Then i guess i'll have to teach you
At the end of this, she tells him how she is still torn between me and him.
Do I have a legitimate reason to break up with her? She lied to me that night, we were video chatting and she said that she was talking to her best friends boyfriend about how to have sex with his girlfriend. So she already lied to my face. How do I bring this up? Say that I was snooping and logged her computer? That would make me out to be just as bad.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 10:22 AM
i would say quite a few ppl would leave there s/o if they where doing this but its up to how forgiving you are and if this is gonna be in your mind the entire time to weather you leave her or not!
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 10:25 AM
Decide if you care for her enough that you get over her being like this and don't mention it to her, but warn her about cheating. If you mention it, I have a feeling it would probably just cause big arguments and you will either break up or stay together and have an unhappy relationship.
Your other choice is to just break up with her really,
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 11:10 AM
I would definitely break up with her and move on. Sorry that you have to go through this. It always sucks to find out something like this is going on.
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 11:29 AM
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Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 06:04 PM
Any relationship that warrants spying on the other person is doomed from the beginning.
Cut your losses quick. Then again, you may like girls that sleep around on you? Whichever way you choose it's gonna suck.
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 09:35 PM
Abso-fuckin-lutely! Seeing that would do it for me. Even if you decide to stay with her - the thought will always be in your head somewhere.
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 10:27 PM
And hard enough that she lands in the next town over.
Grab your stuff, leave, and never look back.
Posted Thu Jun 11, 2009 11:51 PM
if you do love her, it will be the hardest thing you ever had to do. the relationship will never be the same from this point on.. if you confront her about it you have to admit what your doing, and she won't trust you, and you'll never trust her again from what she did. you will constantly remember. even if you forgive her for it, you won't ever forget.
my honest advice would be a clean break, don't succumb to her questions of why or anything. just tell her you don't want to see her anymore.
Posted Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:50 AM
Posted Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:55 AM
No matter what though, I think it's past time to end the relationship.
Posted Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:58 AM
So it's just better to leave her now.
Posted Fri Jun 12, 2009 01:16 AM
Posted Sat Jun 13, 2009 03:10 PM
Q said this so well that I just wanted to reiterate this idea. I completely agree.
Posted Sun Jun 14, 2009 12:19 AM
i am in the same situation, but I found out by checking her text messages. And mine was after 11 years of marriage and a 14 year old daughter. If she will talk like that to another dude, tell the bitch to hit the fucking road, NOW!!!! And as far as reading her aim/text messages/email.......yes it is fine as far as i am concerned. If she does not like it then she has something to hide.