how would you feel?
Posted Sat Jun 13, 2009 07:22 AM
Posted Sat Jun 13, 2009 07:33 AM
then think of something that would help you get one and say it
"better stuff those titties in my mouth"
and stroke yourself
Posted Sat Jun 13, 2009 07:39 AM
Posted Sat Jun 13, 2009 07:45 AM
I think, with you reading between the lines you are fronting in front of your friends a little by calling all these girls, giving the illusion of a 'player' when what you really need, for yourself is to get to know one girl, not the girl your friends would admire you can pull, but the girl that peaks your interest enough physically and mentally and see how it goes.
Posted Sat Jun 13, 2009 07:51 AM
Posted Sat Jun 13, 2009 12:21 PM
If it happens again, just start going down on her till you feel relaxed enough (hopefully) to try again. It'll definitely happen for you. Just be sure to not let the stress pile up on ya.
Posted Sat Jun 13, 2009 12:28 PM
Posted Sun Jun 14, 2009 04:39 AM
I do not think clubs are the place to take or meet girls. Alcohol impedes making proper decisions, body function as was mentioned and having safe sex as well.
I think it worked best for you. I ,personally, think you ought to know someone very well before you lose your "V card" so that sex and love are experienced together and it's meaningful to both. So, it is not a dilemma...it is good common sense guiding you....you may have not realized that.
Posted Sun Jun 14, 2009 05:44 AM
Posted Sun Jun 14, 2009 06:30 AM
And financial! !
Posted Sun Jun 14, 2009 03:30 PM
Posted Sun Jun 14, 2009 05:33 PM
My second attempt I had the same problem as you
Then I realized the bourbon was not helping
The third time I was lucky and the girl was a little bit more experienced and did all the right things I think she knew there might be a problem and she knew just what to do
Posted Wed Jun 17, 2009 02:30 AM
adult 1: actually went around with this girl believing that she can give me what i want as afirst timer and can help me relax and make it as pleasurable as possible... but as i said before the first couple of minutes where i didnt get an erection , everything around you gets blocked and all u feel goes downhill from there and nuthin can bring it back up....
and from what ive seen girls after a wild night out dont like to go easy and foreplay , this happens in the club reaching home fully charged and ready to go right away , from my part not expected at all ... it was kind of a shock the whole dragging me into the room and rdy to go, lol was hoping more of a 20 min foreplay session bfor
a good start for me right now is actually getting to know someone better before rising the stakes but the stress of work and university got the best of me and lacking alot of patience so i really need it at this point in my life where i can get off meeting someone in a club... ill just hope the hypotic and brain damage wont get me all worried that time
thank you all for the encouragement and hopefully ill be back here soon a different person cheers
Posted Wed Jun 17, 2009 08:59 AM