constant aware of what other people think
Posted Thu Jun 18, 2009 10:45 PM
i have a very bad habit that other people are thinking about me as gay, i have a constant awareness about this while talking to them, do really people try to analyse a person sexuality when they are talking.
Posted Thu Jun 18, 2009 11:00 PM
Please help me, this is making me not to be socially active, eventhough i am not a gay i feel that other people will be thinking me as gay, how to come out of this
Posted Thu Jun 18, 2009 11:38 PM
You are the only thing you can be in this world & that is "you" . You can be nothing else no matter how hard you try so why even bother . Those who are worth anything will accept you for who & what you are & those who don't aren't worth your time anyway , don't sweat em .
Posted Fri Jun 19, 2009 03:30 AM
If you are not, it's their problem, if you are, it's their problem.
It's not their business one way or another.
Posted Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:33 AM
Why do you believe they think you are gay?
I know the feeling off ppl saying to u they think ur gay, my sisters think i'm gay :s and i get hit on by guys all the time. Is this a thing in ur head or are ppl saying it to u? I used to be very defensive about it but now i just dont . If they think i'm gay then thats their view but i know i'm not and u should be comfortable with ur sexuality and what other ppl think will not bother u.
Posted Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:50 AM